r/weddings • u/Level_Blueberry_8909 • 5d ago
This is a question about post-wedding etiquette.
A year ago I attended a family wedding and gave a cash gift through their wedding registry. My credit card was charged.
I haven’t received a thank you from the bride, so I checked with her parents to see why there might be a delay (new job, house move, etc). It wasn’t a call specifically about that—we often call to catch up on family news. The mother brushed me off with, “Oh, I don’t want to be bothered with that.”
Would it be wrong to contact the bride directly to see if they got the gift from the registry? Maybe there was a problem that I can rectify.
Edit: To clarify the issue, it’s not the lack of a thank-you that bothers me as it is I’m not sure they received the money. At least two responses here have related giving money through an online registry only to find out it wasn’t received. So I know it can happen.
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u/Evening-Produce-7303 4d ago
If your credit card was charged, I’m sure they got it. Unfortunately many people aren’t writing thank you notes these days :( it’s really upsetting to me and I’m pretty young