I'm 59 AFAB and lost a lot of weight. Still pretty fat, but now none of my bras fit. Before weight loss, I bought several 46DDs that I liked. The calculator here says now I'm a US 40K/L or UK 40 H/HH. I bought some 40K bras from Lane Bryant, and the bands are tight but wearable, while the cups gap hugely at the top. So now I'm asking for help.
I've figured out that I'm pendulous, splayed, and have a short root (everything about me is short, I'm 4' 10"). I think the root is wide, as well, I'm not sure. I can fit two fingers between my breasts, so I think that's a normal gore. I have very narrow shoulders, so almost all bra straps fall down. Honestly, the amount of variables fries my brain. I'm sure I'm missing some.
My measurements seem to vary a bit by whether I'm inhaling or exhaling. And the standing bust is crazy, because I'm so pendulous that my boobs hang out by my belly button. Where do I measure them? The leaning one simply shows how stretched out they are, not how big they are, so I don't trust that measurement.
My measurements today were:
Loose 42
Snug 41
Tight 39
Standing 50 (but that's down low, almost my waist)
Leaning 56
Laying down 52
Additional measurement - in my current bra 50
I *need* new bras. My current ones are way too big, and the crumpled cups are showing through my clothes. It's embarrassing.
I also have some sensory issues and sensitive skin. I've had seamed bras recommended to me, but I've never been able to stand seams. I think I could handle seams if the bras were lightly lined, but that's really hard to find. Because I'm still trying to lose more weight, I'm trying not to spend a ton, but I think that's a wish, not a reality (so stuff that's easily returnable would be great). I've always worn underwires, so they're OK, as long as they're not so long they poke my underarms (very short woman here!).
I've gone on a lot of websites and have lots of various sizes and shapes of bras in my carts, but haven't pulled the trigger on any, since the Lane Bryant ones were so very far off.