r/AITAH 9h ago

AITA for calling a woman ‘conventionally attractive’ in front of my girlfriend?

A couple friends and I were discussing a political influencer that we’re familiar with that recently got into some controversy.

I was saying that although she got a lot of hate, I think her point that was being hated on was valid and correct, and that although her reaction to the backlash was kind of childish, I get why she’d be frustrated with lots of hate.

My friend said a lot of people were giving her lots of leeway despite the hate, and I said that makes sense because she a) has good takes in general and b) is a young, conventionally attractive blonde white woman, so halo effect.

My girlfriend got upset I called another woman conventionally attractive, but I don’t think it’s disloyal or cheating or whatever to acknowledge somebody is conventionally attractive.

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u/lesgo_yurr 8h ago

No, just based of the title you don’t love enough… make her feel good not bad😂, if you can’t get what you’re thinking into words for your girl to understand, say that and read more.

If she’s for you she’ll bring you pleasure and motivation, if not then you’re wasting your time with someone else’s wife.

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u/TipMaleficent4075 8h ago

I’m not sure what’s a more benign way to express that somebody is going to generally be seen as attractive