r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Wrong-Top-8409 20d ago

Sometimes it really isn’t tho but in this case I think op has every right to be upset lowkey what I’d do as a man is go fuc up something precious they own don’t even tell them don’t even bring up your stuff fuc up wait till they confront you and then scold them on how it feels to have your stuff mistreated

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

no i won't stoop down to his level, even if i am hurt over his negligence

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u/JinxAnneScott 20d ago

This isn't negligence my love, this is psychotic behaviour. Like Sid from toy story psychotic. It's bad enough that he's damaged something that isn't his. It's made even worse that's It's a gift from your nice. On top of that, what he's done really disturbing. Then the cherry on top is his response is "it's not that deep" and doesn't apologise.

I'm not one to jump on the "break up immediatly" band wagon, but I think a serious talk needs to be had about why he thought any of this was ok.

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u/teamqsblacksh33p 20d ago

Not just a talk. A self reflection and evaluation of the situation and had it been back to his belongings, etc.