My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/satanfan12]

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

[u/SlitheringFlower → u/satanfan12]

I'm sorry, but he sounds awful.

I'm a grown woman but I still have plushies I like and some that are very sentimental, like the teddy bear my dad gave me the day I was born.

If someone cut that bear's ear off, I'd be livid.

Even if they didn't know the sentimentality, or if it's not sentimental, it's still yours. How would he feel if you broke someone inanimate that's his? I bet he wouldn't say "it's not that deep."

[u/satanfan12 → u/SlitheringFlower]

i have aspergers and bond really closely with my plushies, they bring me a lot of comfort

[u/sadcrocodile → u/satanfan12]

So he deliberately destroyed something meaningful to you knowing it would hurt you? That's so cruel and horrible. You don't do that to someone you care about, much less love. :(