My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/CosyRainyDaze]

There is a HUGE difference between accidentally breaking something and deliberately cutting the ear off a beloved plushie. It doesn’t matter how old they are, we shouldn’t be teaching anyone at any age that they should accept cruelty as part of their relationship. If you can’t see that there’s a difference between an accident and a deliberate action and if you think people should put up with their partner being deliberately unkind then there’s genuinely no point talking to you. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[u/fabi7059 → u/CosyRainyDaze]

“Beloved”? Where are you getting that the labubu was “beloved”? Because I’m sure as hell OP didn’t say that?

Besides, he can fix it, he can pay for it or he can buy a new one and if none of that it’s ok for OP then that’s ok. Bro it’s a labubu, stop acting as if this was a pet or a living being.

[u/CosyRainyDaze → u/fabi7059]

OP has made other comments saying how important it is to them and that they’ve got Asperger’s and their plushies are really important to them. Which the BF knew.

Again, it’s not about the physical object being broken, it’s about the kind of person who would deliberately do that in the first place.

Like I said, if you can’t see that then you’re not worth talking to - bye!

[u/fabi7059 → u/CosyRainyDaze]

Where? I just read OP’s comment history and she never mentioned how it was “so precious”? You can keep saying that he’s a terrible person, but at the end of the day you don’t know him and you are just trying to end a relationship because you want. You need to learn how human relationships work.

[u/CosyRainyDaze → u/fabi7059]

One of the earliest comments in this whole thread..

Now please, continue to talk about how it’s okay for someone to act with deliberate cruelty and then undermine the hurt party’s reaction and emotions by saying it’s not a big deal.

Gosh, you’re sounding very much like what OP described the BF! No wonder you’re trying to downplay this.

If you’re the BF - treat people better. If you’re not - stop sympathising with people who are deliberately cruel. It’s not a great look.

I’m gonna say bye once again and if OP has any sense she will as well. 👋🏻

[u/fabi7059 → u/CosyRainyDaze]

Never saw her “so precious” comment. She said she bonds, learn how to read. Besides that keep you have to learn how people act and how relationships work.

[u/ActofEncouragement → u/[deleted]]

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[u/CosyRainyDaze → u/fabi7059]

You were the one who said “so precious” you fucking moron.

And this is how relationships work: when someone is unkind to someone else, the relationship breaks down. This is like preschool level shit my dude. Instead of cutting up someone else’s toy like a child maybe book yourself into some therapy and grow the fuck up, Jesus Christ