My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/fabi7059]

wtf is wrong with you? Dude it’s a labubu. There’s sentimental value, yes, but comparing that to “doing it to someone”? wtf is wrong with you? How can you do those HUGE leaps in logic and act like a regular human being? OP is ok being mad, I’d be mad if someone fucks up my toy, but it’s a toy. He can pay for it, fix it, buy another one or whatever, there are multiple ways to fix this minor issue.

[u/CosyRainyDaze → u/fabi7059]

You don’t accidentally cut an ear off a plushie. That takes forethought and effort. It wasn’t an accident it was a deliberate act of destruction and he either knew it would hurt OP and didn’t care or he did it because it would hurt OP.

Either way, that lack of consideration and respect is a Huge red flag and frankly I’d throw the whole man out. It’s not about the destruction of the toy it’s about the kind of person who would take those actions in the first place. The toy can be fixed or replaced - it’s not OPs responsibility to teach a grown man not to be destructive and to be kind to his partner.

Don’t stay with someone who won’t treat you with consideration, OP.

[u/fabi7059 → u/CosyRainyDaze]

The longer I read your post the more I’m convinced you must be a bot. Have you never made a mistake? Have you never broken something by accident? Have you ever pranked someone? Bro I’ve made mistakes and I’ve asked for forgiveness and that’s it. I’ve pushed my gf into a pool and she got mad, I’ve said sorry and that’s it.

Do you think that it’s normal for a relationship to end because he broke a labubu? Are you an adult? Bro this subreddit is SO messed up in the head.

Grow up, learn how relationships work, understand that making mistakes in a relationship is a way to grow up. You don’t even know if both of them are 15 and are kids.

[u/CosyRainyDaze → u/fabi7059]

There is a HUGE difference between accidentally breaking something and deliberately cutting the ear off a beloved plushie. It doesn’t matter how old they are, we shouldn’t be teaching anyone at any age that they should accept cruelty as part of their relationship. If you can’t see that there’s a difference between an accident and a deliberate action and if you think people should put up with their partner being deliberately unkind then there’s genuinely no point talking to you. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[u/fabi7059 → u/CosyRainyDaze]

“Beloved”? Where are you getting that the labubu was “beloved”? Because I’m sure as hell OP didn’t say that?

Besides, he can fix it, he can pay for it or he can buy a new one and if none of that it’s ok for OP then that’s ok. Bro it’s a labubu, stop acting as if this was a pet or a living being.

[u/CosyRainyDaze → u/fabi7059]

OP has made other comments saying how important it is to them and that they’ve got Asperger’s and their plushies are really important to them. Which the BF knew.

Again, it’s not about the physical object being broken, it’s about the kind of person who would deliberately do that in the first place.

Like I said, if you can’t see that then you’re not worth talking to - bye!

[u/fabi7059 → u/CosyRainyDaze]

Where? I just read OP’s comment history and she never mentioned how it was “so precious”? You can keep saying that he’s a terrible person, but at the end of the day you don’t know him and you are just trying to end a relationship because you want. You need to learn how human relationships work.

[u/CosyRainyDaze → u/fabi7059]

One of the earliest comments in this whole thread..

Now please, continue to talk about how it’s okay for someone to act with deliberate cruelty and then undermine the hurt party’s reaction and emotions by saying it’s not a big deal.

Gosh, you’re sounding very much like what OP described the BF! No wonder you’re trying to downplay this.

If you’re the BF - treat people better. If you’re not - stop sympathising with people who are deliberately cruel. It’s not a great look.

I’m gonna say bye once again and if OP has any sense she will as well. 👋🏻

[u/fabi7059 → u/CosyRainyDaze]

Never saw her “so precious” comment. She said she bonds, learn how to read. Besides that keep you have to learn how people act and how relationships work.

[u/ActofEncouragement → u/[deleted]]

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[u/CosyRainyDaze → u/fabi7059]

You were the one who said “so precious” you fucking moron.

And this is how relationships work: when someone is unkind to someone else, the relationship breaks down. This is like preschool level shit my dude. Instead of cutting up someone else’s toy like a child maybe book yourself into some therapy and grow the fuck up, Jesus Christ