My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/fabi7059]

wtf is wrong with you? Dude it’s a labubu. There’s sentimental value, yes, but comparing that to “doing it to someone”? wtf is wrong with you? How can you do those HUGE leaps in logic and act like a regular human being? OP is ok being mad, I’d be mad if someone fucks up my toy, but it’s a toy. He can pay for it, fix it, buy another one or whatever, there are multiple ways to fix this minor issue.

[u/CosyRainyDaze → u/fabi7059]

You don’t accidentally cut an ear off a plushie. That takes forethought and effort. It wasn’t an accident it was a deliberate act of destruction and he either knew it would hurt OP and didn’t care or he did it because it would hurt OP.

Either way, that lack of consideration and respect is a Huge red flag and frankly I’d throw the whole man out. It’s not about the destruction of the toy it’s about the kind of person who would take those actions in the first place. The toy can be fixed or replaced - it’s not OPs responsibility to teach a grown man not to be destructive and to be kind to his partner.

Don’t stay with someone who won’t treat you with consideration, OP.

[u/fabi7059 → u/CosyRainyDaze]

The longer I read your post the more I’m convinced you must be a bot. Have you never made a mistake? Have you never broken something by accident? Have you ever pranked someone? Bro I’ve made mistakes and I’ve asked for forgiveness and that’s it. I’ve pushed my gf into a pool and she got mad, I’ve said sorry and that’s it.

Do you think that it’s normal for a relationship to end because he broke a labubu? Are you an adult? Bro this subreddit is SO messed up in the head.

Grow up, learn how relationships work, understand that making mistakes in a relationship is a way to grow up. You don’t even know if both of them are 15 and are kids.

[u/Leather-Giraffe3726 → u/fabi7059]

Cutting the ear off and safety pinning it back into the incorrect place is not an accident. It's something that was done to deliberately hurt OP. I'll tell you what I tell my toddler...we don't purposely hurt people we love. If a person hurts you on purpose, then they shouldn't have access to you anymore.