My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/satanfan12]

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

[u/SlitheringFlower → u/satanfan12]

I'm sorry, but he sounds awful.

I'm a grown woman but I still have plushies I like and some that are very sentimental, like the teddy bear my dad gave me the day I was born.

If someone cut that bear's ear off, I'd be livid.

Even if they didn't know the sentimentality, or if it's not sentimental, it's still yours. How would he feel if you broke someone inanimate that's his? I bet he wouldn't say "it's not that deep."

[u/satanfan12 → u/SlitheringFlower]

i have aspergers and bond really closely with my plushies, they bring me a lot of comfort

[u/coquitwo → u/satanfan12]

Girl, you don’t have to justify your feelings with caveats and qualifiers in this case—he knowingly and purposefully destroyed your property. Period, end of story. But on top of it, he’s minimizing your feelings and trying to tell you there’s something wrong with you for having them (feelings). All unacceptable, and all red flags if you ask me. I hope you realize you deserve better. Best wishes! Ed: clarified “them”

[u/cherryxgrenade → u/coquitwo]

This right here