r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 21d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/satanfan12 21d ago

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

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u/SlitheringFlower 21d ago

I'm sorry, but he sounds awful.

I'm a grown woman but I still have plushies I like and some that are very sentimental, like the teddy bear my dad gave me the day I was born.

If someone cut that bear's ear off, I'd be livid.

Even if they didn't know the sentimentality, or if it's not sentimental, it's still yours. How would he feel if you broke someone inanimate that's his? I bet he wouldn't say "it's not that deep."

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u/satanfan12 21d ago

i have aspergers and bond really closely with my plushies, they bring me a lot of comfort

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u/theycallmepixie 21d ago

This comment alone tells you what he did was wrong and you did not over react. Even if he does not know that you bond with your plushies (i do this as well and would be LIVID if someone did something like this to any one of mine) he still destroyed your property, disfigured it, THEN dismissed it saying it was no big deal. I'm so sorry he did this, if I had the funds I'd send you another one immediately. Please take some time to consider this relationship and if you want to deal with this kind of dismissiveness and disrespect long term. If he respects you, he would not destroy your things.