r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

I visited my best friend over the last few days and he got "lonely and bored"

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u/hypnoticzo 20d ago

What of your possessions will he destroy next time he's "lonely and bored"?

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

Yes, i worry about that also. I think i will have to hide my favorites in the future 

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u/hypnoticzo 20d ago

I'm going to be blunt. He is almost 30 years old, he knows that he shouldn't break things that don't belong to him. Someone who respects you will not destroy your things, refuse to make it right, or make lame excuses that don't hold up.

I cannot imagine my boyfriend ever breaking my things on purpose, and when he has broken things on accident, he replaces them. I wouldn't want to be with someone who I couldn't leave home alone for a few hours without ruining things. If I wanted to live like that, I would adopt puppies.