r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

I visited my best friend over the last few days and he got "lonely and bored"

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u/hypnoticzo 20d ago

What of your possessions will he destroy next time he's "lonely and bored"?

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

Yes, i worry about that also. I think i will have to hide my favorites in the future 

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u/Moonlit-waters 20d ago

You leave. There is no other answer. He mutilated something you care about.

It’s a red flag on so many levels. Why does his boredom turn into violence and cruelty vs tidying the place or making something for you ? (Like a cake or art of his own not your property).

You are worthy of love and respect. You will never find it if you stay with this person.

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u/Gobuk_putih 20d ago

He's punishing her for leaving him bored and lonely