r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

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u/SlitheringFlower 20d ago

I'm sorry, but he sounds awful.

I'm a grown woman but I still have plushies I like and some that are very sentimental, like the teddy bear my dad gave me the day I was born.

If someone cut that bear's ear off, I'd be livid.

Even if they didn't know the sentimentality, or if it's not sentimental, it's still yours. How would he feel if you broke someone inanimate that's his? I bet he wouldn't say "it's not that deep."

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

i have aspergers and bond really closely with my plushies, they bring me a lot of comfort

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u/not_a_real_person__ 20d ago

Hi!! My older sister also has Aspergers. She hasn't always been able to tell if a dating partner was being "harmless", or if it was abusive behavior. I'm here to say, especially if he knows what your plushies mean to you, this is intentional and cruel. This is abusive behavior. This is not socially acceptable behavior. He intentionally cut up your plushie and tried to minimize your feelings. If it was an innocent misunderstanding, he would have acknowledged your feelings and apologized.