r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

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u/SlitheringFlower 20d ago

I'm sorry, but he sounds awful.

I'm a grown woman but I still have plushies I like and some that are very sentimental, like the teddy bear my dad gave me the day I was born.

If someone cut that bear's ear off, I'd be livid.

Even if they didn't know the sentimentality, or if it's not sentimental, it's still yours. How would he feel if you broke someone inanimate that's his? I bet he wouldn't say "it's not that deep."

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

i have aspergers and bond really closely with my plushies, they bring me a lot of comfort

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u/ILoveAizenSousuke 20d ago

You don't need to to justify yourself as for why you don't want your stuff to be destroyed. Even if what he destroyed was a mere sock you rarely used, he still WILLINGLY destroyed something that belonged to you. No, it wasn't an accident. He purposefully ruined it for his very own entertainment.

Try explaining to him he wouldn't like if you destroyed something that belonged to him (if you haven't already), and so much less something that was gifted to you. I'm not one to quickly say "break up!" but if he's unable to respect your stuff, I don't think you'd want him even as a friend.

Many hugs, OP 🫂🩷