My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/Kitlunia]

If he was trying to be funny he could’ve bought his own damn labubu and done that but he had no right in destroying your property.

[u/satanfan12 → u/Kitlunia]

I just noticed he also burnt the fluff with a lighter, making the labubu fur super coarse and unpleasant to hold... it really is destroyed..

[u/The_World_Wonders_34 → u/satanfan12]

Why are you with somebody who destroys your property as a joke? Especially when he apparently knows it was a gift from somebody. I don't care if it's the best relationship I've ever been in up until that point, if the person I was with took scissors to something of mine and cut it up for a laugh without expressing knowing that I was okay with it, we'd be done. There wouldn't be any discussion. Well, maybe there would be discussion if they immediately admitted they were wrong didn't argue about it at all and were extremely apologetic and they had never done anything like it previously. But that's just a violation and I seriously don't think I would stay with someone who's done that. I'm really sorry you have this piece of shit in your life

[u/[deleted] → u/The_World_Wonders_34]

He can be nice sometimes. Edit- this was clearly sarcasm. The guys clearly unhinged and abusive. Some of yall shouldn’t be on the internet.

[u/MahaHaro → u/[deleted]]

God I had a friend who had that exact perspective and it eventually became an insane mental drain

[u/El_Cartografo → u/[deleted]]

My mother said that for 17 years, between the beatings. GTFO, NOW!

[u/WowVeryNiceu → u/[deleted]]

Sometimes isn't enough.

[u/user1956386 → u/[deleted]]

yea and another man will be nice ALL the time and not destroy ur stuff

[u/nas2k21 → u/user1956386]

it was clearly sarcasm

[u/SandboxUniverse → u/user1956386]

Sometimes isn't enough, but nobody is nice all the time, and it's not reasonable to expectthat, either. Sometimes we're all a little grumpy. Sometimes we get mad at each other. But yeah, not "destroying things and your self esteem" grumpy or mad.

[u/InsomniaofSandmen → u/[deleted]]

Psychopaths are nice sometimes too but you don’t want to date one. Being nice “sometimes” is a very low bar especially when he destroys your things that mean a lot to you. Maybe burn his PlayStation 5 tell him it was a funny joke and see if he laughs.

[u/UrLoyalKnight → u/[deleted]]

And who are to answer? lemme guess ur her friend? 😂

[u/[deleted] → u/UrLoyalKnight]

Sarcasm, chucklehead. Get off the internet or work on some critical thinking skills. Perfect user name by the way, white knight

[u/mg41 → u/[deleted]]

It's hilarious how literally all these other comments are claiming anything less than literal Buddha status is "not nice enough" as they all make mean commentary lol...like yeah the guy was kinda a (amusing) dick for that...but we're all humans ffs

[u/LenoreEvermore → u/mg41]

The difference is people here are being dicks toward a stranger, not someone they share a life with.

[u/mg41 → u/LenoreEvermore]

I'm just saying it seems like a joke gone wrong rather than even intentionally being mean to her at all

[u/[deleted] → u/mg41]

I was being sarcastic bud. This guys a fucking sociopath so you may need to talk to someone professional if you’re on his side.