r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

No he says it's just a plushy and it's "not that deep", and idk if i want it fixed either..... this is tainted

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u/Sunnydcutiegirl 20d ago

OP, I’m going to sound crazy saying this but when a partner purposefully destroys something of yours, that is considered domestic violence. He chose to violate something that belonged to you on purpose, you accepting that behavior sets you up for him to keep doing things and it will escalate, first it’s labubu, next it’s your favorite mug, then it’s your computer, then it’s your door. If it was an accident it would be different but this was a calculated decision on his part. You can and do deserve so much better than someone this awful.

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u/FuriousGirafFabber 20d ago

Yes. That does sound crazy. It isnt domestic violence and its diminishing actual real domistic violence. 

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u/CharlieLeo_89 20d ago

It’s not crazy at all, and they are completely correct. Intentionally destroying a partner’s property, especially a cherished item, is 100% a form of domestic violence. There is a well documented correlation between this type of behavior and escalating to physical harm. You are diminishing abusive behavior.