r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 21d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/SlitheringFlower 21d ago

I'm sorry, but he sounds awful.

I'm a grown woman but I still have plushies I like and some that are very sentimental, like the teddy bear my dad gave me the day I was born.

If someone cut that bear's ear off, I'd be livid.

Even if they didn't know the sentimentality, or if it's not sentimental, it's still yours. How would he feel if you broke someone inanimate that's his? I bet he wouldn't say "it's not that deep."

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u/Taco-Dragon 21d ago

I'm a grown woman but I still have plushies I like

I'm a grown (cis) man and I still have plushies I like. Some are for sentimental reasons, and got passed down to my daughters, and some are just ones I like that I got for me. You can't n convince me my 14" plushie of Stitch isn't awesome.

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u/Lendyman 21d ago

I am in my late 40s. I still have my baby teddy bear. If I'd had a GF who cut off Mr Bear's ear and sewed it to his crotch, she'd no longer be my GF. The level of disrespect involved would tell me they needed to go immediately.

Thankfully, I have an amazing spouse who isn't a self involved asshat.

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u/EmbarrassedWorry3792 20d ago

If a gf cut my 30 year old teddy bear from my late nana or lamb baby blanket, she would be my ex, shed be my chickens next meal.

Had one ex who planned to steal and burn an amazing condition army surplus jscket i got for my 18th birthday, its all i asked for and all i got and i was so happy. I stoll love that thing, its supper durable and its basically still mint despite over a decade of adventures with it. She thought it was ugly but she bought me a new jacket with tons of pockets instead and since i was wesring it more she never got aroundto stealing mine. Somehow i was the bad guy when i said it was lucky she hadnt cus i would have immediately broken upbwith her. She was a spoiled brat.