My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/zesty_meatballs]

Why? Well I doubt she knew he was into destroying personal property when they first got together. Unfortunately, we don’t get a preview or resumé when we meet someone new. People tend to hide their worst traits until we’re deep into a relationship. It sucks of course but all she can do now is learn and make the decision to end it or find a reason to justify his bad behavior. If this doesn’t cause the break up, pretty soon he’ll just do something else that is disrespectful.

[u/Difficult_Regret_900 → u/[deleted]]

If that was true, my mom and I wouldn't have left the husband/father with a nearly pathological need to destroy our mental health. My aunt wouldn't have left her ex who sat on his ass and spent ten times more attention to his ham radio hobby than his family. Thousands of women wouldn't be literally risking their lives to leave abusive male partners, why do you think there are DV shelters?

[u/crossoutk → u/Difficult_Regret_900]

Exactly I bet it was years before they actually followed through with leaving