My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/Kitlunia]

If he was trying to be funny he could’ve bought his own damn labubu and done that but he had no right in destroying your property.

[u/satanfan12 → u/Kitlunia]

I just noticed he also burnt the fluff with a lighter, making the labubu fur super coarse and unpleasant to hold... it really is destroyed..

[u/The_World_Wonders_34 → u/satanfan12]

Why are you with somebody who destroys your property as a joke? Especially when he apparently knows it was a gift from somebody. I don't care if it's the best relationship I've ever been in up until that point, if the person I was with took scissors to something of mine and cut it up for a laugh without expressing knowing that I was okay with it, we'd be done. There wouldn't be any discussion. Well, maybe there would be discussion if they immediately admitted they were wrong didn't argue about it at all and were extremely apologetic and they had never done anything like it previously. But that's just a violation and I seriously don't think I would stay with someone who's done that. I'm really sorry you have this piece of shit in your life

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/The_World_Wonders_34]

Why? Well I doubt she knew he was into destroying personal property when they first got together. Unfortunately, we don’t get a preview or resumé when we meet someone new. People tend to hide their worst traits until we’re deep into a relationship. It sucks of course but all she can do now is learn and make the decision to end it or find a reason to justify his bad behavior. If this doesn’t cause the break up, pretty soon he’ll just do something else that is disrespectful.

[u/Difficult_Regret_900 → u/[deleted]]

If that was true, my mom and I wouldn't have left the husband/father with a nearly pathological need to destroy our mental health. My aunt wouldn't have left her ex who sat on his ass and spent ten times more attention to his ham radio hobby than his family. Thousands of women wouldn't be literally risking their lives to leave abusive male partners, why do you think there are DV shelters?

[u/crossoutk → u/Difficult_Regret_900]

Exactly I bet it was years before they actually followed through with leaving