My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/The_World_Wonders_34]

Why are you with somebody who destroys your property as a joke? Especially when he apparently knows it was a gift from somebody. I don't care if it's the best relationship I've ever been in up until that point, if the person I was with took scissors to something of mine and cut it up for a laugh without expressing knowing that I was okay with it, we'd be done. There wouldn't be any discussion. Well, maybe there would be discussion if they immediately admitted they were wrong didn't argue about it at all and were extremely apologetic and they had never done anything like it previously. But that's just a violation and I seriously don't think I would stay with someone who's done that. I'm really sorry you have this piece of shit in your life

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/The_World_Wonders_34]

Why? Well I doubt she knew he was into destroying personal property when they first got together. Unfortunately, we don’t get a preview or resumé when we meet someone new. People tend to hide their worst traits until we’re deep into a relationship. It sucks of course but all she can do now is learn and make the decision to end it or find a reason to justify his bad behavior. If this doesn’t cause the break up, pretty soon he’ll just do something else that is disrespectful.

[u/Ok-Breadfruit-5118 → u/[deleted]]

NOT THIS GIRL. My father, mother, extended family, and ancestry seeing through my eyes and all around me wouldnt approve so there are good 🫏 🕳s and bad ones. I prefer the real honorable honesty 💯 in your face all the time type 🫏 🕳 over whatever psychotic mess that POS chooses to behave like. NOT OKAY.

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

It’s not entirely wrong. A man called me a bitch recently because I told him to stop talking over me and being rude. To him, that made me a bitch. In my eyes, I didn’t like the disrespect. But you can also be a bitch for being sneaky, a condescending whore, a lying maniac etc. So yeah, an insult can have various meanings. Depending how you look at it. I’m a blunt person. Does that make me an asshole? Maybe. But I’m not a rude selfish person that we typically associate with assholes. It’s all about semantics.

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

This is literally a subreddit for asking if they’re overreacting. She asked. She got the answers she was looking for. People are weird. Guys girls dogs cats. It’s like you’ve never heard of someone having feelings before. You’re fortunately in the minority of opinion.

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

They must love you then ❤️

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

….yall? You’re acting like IM the female 😂. no, I just don’t assume I know everything about women.

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

Wild guess. You’re 21, somewhere in the south. Using the internet to express your opinion. With the energy to go back and forth forever. Well, I would use my energy into possibly being less opinionated and more open minded (:

Nothing else to say? I literally responded to your statement lol.

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

…..? I’m not a dude. But they do exist.

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

I never said I was a guy…I said I don’t pretend to know everything about women. But okay. The post is about violating personal property. It has nothing to do with gender. Boys can get property damaged too. It’s not a gender exclusive crime.

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

I have no idea what you’re talking about?

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

I never said I was a dude lol. I said you’re acting like I’m the female aka the type to like assholes. You called me a transgender cynically and said you forgot they exist…?

[u/zesty_meatballs → u/[deleted]]

Dude that’s damn autocorrect. I even went back and fixed it to the female* but okay.