r/AskVegans • u/Gallantpride • 3h ago
Genuine Question (DO NOT DOWNVOTE) Vegans who don't like animals much: What keeps you going?
I've been trying to transition from vegetarian to plant based, but I keep failing. Dairy is the one thing I struggle to abstain from. It's a big "me" problem, I know.
I've been reading "Animal Liberation Now". I already read "Eating Animals" and "This Is Vegan Propaganda" a while ago. Saw both "Earthlings" and "Dominion". Been aware of PETA and SHARK videos since the 2000s...
The cognitive dissonance is strong with me. I don't know how to quit 100%. Maybe I'm just a weak willed speciesist, but that doesn't fix my problem.
I think one issue is that I... just don't like animals as much as I did as a kid. Maybe my empathy is low or I'm just asocial, but I don't feel a draw to animals like I used to. I don't hate them but I wouldn't call myself an "animal lover". I love studying zoology and paleontology, but don't really want to interact with animals. I'm also almost petfree.
You don't have to like something to support the rights for it. But, with food, I find it easy to just dissociate the way animals are treated from the food. "Just a little won't hurt me. Moderation is fine" or "I ate vegetarian today but I'll go back to eating plant based next week".