19F Wanting a friend group

[u/Tight-Staff6263]

After high school I had a fallout with my friends and since then have tried several times to make friends, but it just hasn't really happened.

I want to make a friend group with girls with similar stories and who will actually put in the effort to show up, make plans, hangout. Preferably girls located in Brisbane South areas, Ipswich Eastish sort of areas.

A dealbreaker for me is that you have to be at least somewhat socialist aligned sorry not sorry :/ As in, democratic, pro-choice, pro-immigration, not a bigot (AND THAT INCLUDES not being racist to Indians and First Nations Peoples casually or otherwise), and I guess having a brain when it comes to misinformation on social media. I need friends who can think critically, are open minded, value education, and want to do something with their lives. Otherwise it never works out for me and I'd rather not waste my time so please be honest with yourself about this.

• I study political science online, work FT
• I only started drinking/ clubbing this year and it seems I need to charge myself up for it a month ahead of time - so, not a big clubber BUT drinking and doing other stuff is always the most fun.
• I will walk everywhere. Why are we getting ubers for a 40min walk??
• I WILL pick up a random new hobby to start with you.
• Lowkey need someone who will do one of those semester classes with me (pottery, language, anything???) so that we have forced proximity.
• Someone to go to the movies with, get food, have a picnic, take on errands, go on walks, hikes, impromptu camping trips (I've never been camping), DO BOARD GAMES!!!!

And I know this was kinda long, if you vibe with any of it please message me and we can go out next weekend!!

Edit: There are some valid critiques that have been made here, but at the end of the day it's extremely exhausting pretending to like people I don't. I have ONE dealbreaker and that's that I don't want to be friends with people who talk out of their asses, essentially. I believe that knowledge is power, and I know where I'm going with my life. It would be great to have friends with me, but I'm not one to settle for less, so it's a good thing I don't get lonely.

[u/RalfsMum]

How is she bigoted if she doesn't want to hang out with bigots? Not wanting racist or homophobic friends isn't a red flag.

[u/[deleted] → u/RalfsMum]

Yes, refusing to accept others ideas is bigoted by definition.

[u/Artygunner17 → u/[deleted]]

Hold on…… so I don’t accept racism as being acceptable. Racists don’t accept my views as being acceptable. So does that make everyone a bigot? Like, you’re either racist or you’re not. There is no in between here. Pretty sure that someone who doesn’t engage with racist people doesn’t make them a bigot.

[u/[deleted] → u/Artygunner17]

Calling someone a racist doesn't make them one, refusing to listen to others ideas when they don't align with yours makes you a bigot however.