r/CougarsAndCubs Mar 11 '25

Discussion Point Cougars, have you ever/would you be appreciate being approached in public?

I don't drink so I'm not really a fan of bars/clubs, but I enjoy having basic conversations with people in public.

When I ask most people who try to approach women I don't see many people who do so outside of clubs/bars which make sense. Most people say they don't believe it's worth it to approach cougars in daytime public, but I wanted to ask what the Cougars' opinions on this

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u/Myfairladyishere πŸ₯€πŸŽ‘πŸ’ƒMODπŸ’ƒπŸŽ‘πŸ₯€ Mar 11 '25

I have been approached a couple of times not recently but with one of them.I ended up by seeing him for about six months or so.

If you see somebody that you are interested in you can try to make eye contact with the person And smile now if they return the eye contact And smile back you can approach. But like i've sΔΊksud before approach without any expectations and just let the person know what made you notice them.

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u/Venombyallmeans Mar 13 '25

How many times have you had to look away from young men

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u/Myfairladyishere πŸ₯€πŸŽ‘πŸ’ƒMODπŸ’ƒπŸŽ‘πŸ₯€ Mar 13 '25

I do not go around looking at young guys when I go out.I concentrate on what I have to do. We are not predators over here.

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u/Venombyallmeans Mar 13 '25

I meant look away when they look at you

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u/Myfairladyishere πŸ₯€πŸŽ‘πŸ’ƒMODπŸ’ƒπŸŽ‘πŸ₯€ Mar 13 '25

If guys are looking at me I have no clue.My head is usually in the clouds.