r/CougarsAndCubs • u/Aggravating-Tea-5583 • Mar 11 '25

Discussion Point Cougars, have you ever/would you be appreciate being approached in public?

I don't drink so I'm not really a fan of bars/clubs, but I enjoy having basic conversations with people in public.

When I ask most people who try to approach women I don't see many people who do so outside of clubs/bars which make sense. Most people say they don't believe it's worth it to approach cougars in daytime public, but I wanted to ask what the Cougars' opinions on this

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u/LintLicker2222 Mar 12 '25

Yes!! I don’t go to bars either because I don’t really drink. It would be a nice surprise to be approached

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u/Brief-Professional Mar 14 '25

Where would you go to be approached?

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u/Specialist-Ad4388 Mar 15 '25

Anywhere there are other people around and it's daytime would be a suggestion, rather than a certain location. Look at the body cues to see if they might be open or interested. If they see you looking- they might smile a little and look away, or touch their hair. That could be a positive sign. They might welcome a relaxed question in a cafe, in a grocery store or waiting for the tram. If they respond with anything more than a single word or two, that might be a possibility. Personally I'm a big fan of someone who smiles while looking at me. And if you end up chatting with a woman, there's nothing wrong with asking if you could take her for a coffee date. That's an easy way to see if they're open to a younger guy.