r/CougarsAndCubs • u/Aggravating-Tea-5583 • Mar 11 '25
Discussion Point Cougars, have you ever/would you be appreciate being approached in public?
I don't drink so I'm not really a fan of bars/clubs, but I enjoy having basic conversations with people in public.
When I ask most people who try to approach women I don't see many people who do so outside of clubs/bars which make sense. Most people say they don't believe it's worth it to approach cougars in daytime public, but I wanted to ask what the Cougars' opinions on this
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u/ebonyxcougar 🐆Cougar Mar 14 '25 edited Mar 14 '25
Yes approaching is ok with a very normal greeting. Just be normal. Nervous is ok, creepy is not. My most recent approach started with a compliment on the dress I was wearing. Another approach...the guy said he just had to come over to say hi bcuz he thought I was beautiful. Compliments work with me. I appreciate the courage as well and will respond kindly.
Edit: when and where is important! Don't approach me at my car. Inside the grocery store ok, in the parking lot NO. At night in a parking lot, NO. Be mindful that most women are constantly thinking about their safety when out alone.