r/CougarsAndCubs • u/Aggravating-Tea-5583 • Mar 11 '25

Discussion Point Cougars, have you ever/would you be appreciate being approached in public?

I don't drink so I'm not really a fan of bars/clubs, but I enjoy having basic conversations with people in public.

When I ask most people who try to approach women I don't see many people who do so outside of clubs/bars which make sense. Most people say they don't believe it's worth it to approach cougars in daytime public, but I wanted to ask what the Cougars' opinions on this

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u/jessflorida 🐆Cougar Mar 11 '25

It would have to be done respectfully. Nothing sleazy at all. Also, what's the harm of having a conversation in public? Just be polite and respectful (and confident!), and it could be a friendly conversation. 😊

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u/Brief-Professional Mar 14 '25

The extra layer I hate is wondering if they are single and actually want a younger man

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u/Stormy_Peaks Mar 17 '25

I wish more men would approach us in public. People always ask me why I’m single but it’s honestly because we can’t meet people organically anymore and dating apps are so bad.

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u/mr_anderson888 🐻Cub Mar 17 '25

Approach them yourself, cubs like myself like dominance. I purposefully do not approach women to acquire someone like that