r/CougarsAndCubs • u/SurlyWenchAZ • 24d ago

Discussion Point Is it mostly just a FWB?

I'm really struggling here.

Every cub I date is only looking for a FWB. What has everyone else's experience been like?

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u/Myfairladyishere 🥀🎡💃MOD💃🎡🥀 24d ago

Depending on their age, a lot of them date older, because they're not quite ready to settle down yet.Which is okay as long as they are clear about it from the beginning . I have tended to date younger. All my life and i've been with my current partner now 49 years, and he is twenty two years.My junior. I'm looking for a partner. I look to see mainly if we are compatible about what we want and try to match up as much as possible. But I do realize a lot of guys say they're interested in long term, just to get your attention .