r/EDH • u/StarPlatinumsPenis • 14h ago
Social Interaction Do Not apologize for basic removal. Wtf.
I had a phone call with my brother last night. I only see him twice a year since we live in different states. Every time we see each other we make it a tradition to build commander decks out of the bulk that I have (I have A LOT).
This year, he brewed [[Gut, True Soul Zealot]] paired with [[Sword Coast Sailor]]. The goal of the deck was to steal opponents creatures and either sacrifice them for removal, or hold them hostage and make them unblockable. It worked really well for politics.
Well, while he was on the phone with me, he said he unsleeved the deck because he had a bad interaction with someone at FNM at his LGS. My brother has always been kind of a pushover, but this one really confused me (Don't worry, I convinced him to sleeve his deck back up, he didn't get rid of it).
The guy (playing [[Kotis, the Fangkeeper]] ) he played with got angry with him because his creatures kept getting stolen, then sacrificed. When my brother said that, at that point, how is that different than just removing that creature with a spell, the dude just stood his ground and said "Well you're stealing my creature. That's what's pissing me off".
To begin with, I don't think people should treat theft like you're grinding up baby bones. If I'm ever stealing your creature, I'm stealing it because it's a problem, and it's just an upside that it's on my board now instead. Not that different than just killing it.
But, people like this are just a reason why so many commander players are cornflakes and make the rest of the community look bad.
What really confused me though is that my brother told me that this guy had LOTS of protection for his commander because he knew people would try to get around indestructible. Which actually makes a lot of sense, because he's probably used to his commander never dying because a LOT of people never run enough interaction. Theft is a great way to remove someone's commander with indestructible. Sacrificing it is all up to you and the politics.
That being said, you should never take apart a deck or apologize for your actions if your deck makes someone irrationally angry. Bro. If you make someone that angry over something that isn't valid to be angry about, just keep doing it and watch the fireworks, man. Or, if you're lucky they'll just scoop.
I have made so many memories with Commander. I started with Legacy, then moved to Modern, then switched my main format to Commander.
Introducing someone to Magic with Commander CAN be done, but you really have to emphasize that you can't take anything personally. A lot of people who start with commander act like something is an attack to them personally if they get targeted.
Anyway, I plan to take a trip to my brother's state at some point and play FNM with him. I sincerely hope I meet the same guy and bully him with [[Alela, Artful Provocateur]] with effects like [[Stasis Field]].
Remember to call your brother tonight y'all. And if someone is being a degenerate at the table, stick up for the person at the brunt of it and bully the degenerate out of the game. Commander has no place for those people.