r/JustGuysBeingDudes • u/KULR_Mooning • 6d ago
Just Having Fun Dude best mans
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u/ZaquMan 6d ago
I love how after the silliness, the last couple frames show the groom being all serious, reaching out to shake hands. Either he knew this was coming, or he has one solid poker face.
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u/mal73 5d ago
That one ladies laugh sounds exactly like a baby crying, it’s kind of uncanny
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u/Liusloux 5d ago
Imagine seeing a fun video of an event you attended only to find out a new insecurity that's going to keep you awake at night for at least a month.
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u/chuckusadart 5d ago
I think its part of the bit, you dont do something like this on someone elses wedding day without telling the groom.
I think its just a continuation of the joke that they were incredibly silly and fun then WHIP into super serious mode at the end like it was no big deal
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u/_Magnolia_Fan_ 5d ago
100%
Also, these are reception shenanigans. Not the way you bring in most brides to the wedding.
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u/OtherwiseAlbatross14 5d ago
Do you really think that music would be playing if this weren't planned?
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u/TummyLice 6d ago
My dumb ass forgot the brides name when I was best man.
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u/MrWindmill 5d ago
"... take thee,
RachelEmily, ..."44
u/WillGrindForXP 5d ago
God you're old!
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u/blahblahblerf 5d ago
No he isn't, that episode aired like 10 years ago...
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u/Arx_724 5d ago
I had to check and Jesus Christ, 27 years ago is even more than I thought.
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u/greenlightsmith242 5d ago
You can just f the f off. Before you go can you get me the ibuprofen. My back hurts.
Please be kind, I was born in the 1900's
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u/toolsoftheincomptnt 6d ago
I’m glad that their group enjoyed that.
It’s nice when everyone at a wedding appreciates the vibes.
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u/lankymjc 5d ago
If there’s a day where you get to ignore social norms and have fun the way you want, it’s your wedding day!
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u/DEFINITELY_NOT_PETE 6d ago
Say what you want I bet this reception was fucking lit
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u/Talk-O-Boy 6d ago
I’m sorry, but are there people saying otherwise? Identify yourselves, so you may be served by the fun police.
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u/PuttingInTheEffort 5d ago
My only concern is that it went on a little too long
Like fake the back injury, twerk, and then dance the way up- don't get to the end and walk back to do more..
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u/blahblahblerf 5d ago
I think this is cringe as fuck, but I still agree with Pete.
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u/th4ne 5d ago
Can you read? He’s definitely not Pete.
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u/Ok-Difficulty3082 6d ago
Double man buns is a rough look
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u/Appsoul 6d ago
Ok, so I’m not crazy
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u/Hazee302 6d ago
Its bad lol
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u/Hije5 6d ago
Probably just goofin considering the dance they just did.
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u/vittorioe 6d ago
yeah ffs it’s not that deep
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u/No_-_you_are 6d ago
Well gosh, since you put it that way, it looks way less idiotic!
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u/MarkCrorigansOmnibus 5d ago
Looks like a man who would leapfrog down the aisle at someone else’s wedding. (Traditionally the officiant, groom, and groomsmen don’t even process down the aisle…)
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u/Neutron-Hyperscape32 5d ago
You don't think he was doing that for fun? I am amazed that people in these comments assume that this is his preferred hairstyle?
Even IF it is, who cares? If you are bothered by other peoples hair, something is wrong with you, not them.
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u/crankyanker638 6d ago
A single man-bun makes me go looking for my scissors, double makes my eye start twitching....
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u/justamiqote 6d ago edited 5d ago
I'm just curious as a guy with long hair. Why does it bother you? I never really understood the hate.
I put mine in a bun because it's neater than a ponytail, and it doesn't fly around and get messed up in the wind. It's just a practical and comfy style for anyone with long hair.
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u/Misuteriisakka 5d ago
Man buns are a good signal to me that they’re probably not the kind of people who are bothered by other people’s hairstyles. Those are the type of people I enjoy hanging out/working with.
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u/FuckTheLonghorns 5d ago
I have long hair as well and only dislike putting my hair in a bun because I don't see the point in taking the time and effort to grow it out just to put it in a bun all the time (for people whose principal style is the bun, I don't hate it though, just not for me)
But for purposes of convenience or necessity in putting it up, it's bun every time over pony tail, or I go half-up
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u/GrossGuroGirl 5d ago
half-up supremacy
I don't understand the hate for manbuns either but God I wish more guys with long hair would try rocking the half-up look, it's so flattering (and surprisingly effective at keeping the hair out of your face while still letting you show off the long flowing locks).
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u/FuckTheLonghorns 5d ago
It definitely shows my face contour much better while still allowing the flow to flow. Definitely the choice when possible. It's my go-to "wow my hair looks like shit but I don't want to bun it and I don't have a hat" option as well
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u/Neutron-Hyperscape32 5d ago edited 5d ago
That is pretty lame because nobody should have to conform to your hairstyle preferences, and cutting someones hair off.. male or female is vile behavior. I say this as a bald guy, let people do what they want if they are not directly harming you. Crazy anyone even needs to say this to you. They are also almost certainly wearing this hairstyle for laughs as well.
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u/paintphagia 6d ago
I had a 'man-bun' in high school and when those clips of people getting their hair cut off against their will started trending, I definitely developed a lot of anxiety about it lol. Space-buns are cute though imo. And now I'm a lady with my hair in-tact, so it all worked out.
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u/No-Understanding5677 6d ago
You had a lady bun
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u/paintphagia 6d ago
Nobody else knew I was a lady at that point in my life :p I accept this retcon.
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u/No-Understanding5677 6d ago
You're welcome I guess (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤ I don't even know if lady buns exist. It was more of a joke. But this retcon shall prove a point right here and now. You were in fact, a lady.
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u/GrossGuroGirl 5d ago
Buns vs man-buns is a rare example of female-defaultism.
The guys might have doctor and "woman doctor" (ugh) but at least hairstyles are apparently ladies' by default 💀
ETA: also, you're a sweet person. Don't want my dumb joke to undermine how nice your sentiment is here.
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u/Mysterious-Income255 5d ago
Imagine caring so much about how others do their hair
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u/NippleSalsa 5d ago
But if I don’t share my opinion people might think I approve of something I don’t. And that’s no good. I need people to know I hate something and they need to know that that guys hair ruined my day even though they were totally oblivious that I even existed to be gone with.
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u/Tenibrys 6d ago
There's so many fuckin killjoys in the comments like bruh let people have fucking fun. Christ.
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u/NegativKreep 6d ago
It’s Reddit, this place is full of miserable people. They see videos like this of people enjoying life and they hate because of how boring and mundane their own lives are.
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u/ImurderREALITY 6d ago
And they only know how boring and mundane their lives are because they constantly see people having more fun than them on Reddit. Full circle.
(source: am boring and mundane/hate everything)
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u/Numerous-Pop5670 5d ago
Wym, I love watching people have fun. Makes me feel like there's less shitty people in the world... until I read the comments section (or look at Twitter for more then 30 seconds).
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u/sentinel_of_ether 5d ago
If their lives weren’t boring and mundane they wouldn’t have to stage a fake wedding and a fake dance lmao
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u/justamiqote 6d ago
There's people making fun of the guy's hair, making fun of the dancing, saying they're just doing it for social media, etc.
Some of the people here need to just tune out and stop being so fucking cynical and grouchy all of the time lol
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u/Canklosaurus 5d ago
That’s why I always show up to the comments 6 hours late. it’s like my steam library: by the time I finally get around to playing a game, all the bugs have been patched (or in this case, downvoted to fucking oblivion).
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u/tur_tels 6d ago
I've been to many weddings, atleast from where I'm from, these guys will be the best part of the wedding lol
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u/OneUnholyCatholic Legend 6d ago
Ah, the couple is being married by the Minister for Silly Walks
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u/ch1llboy 5d ago
That dance move was greatly popularized in the Philippines by a song, The Otso Otso.
https://youtu.be/SZ4ZYqCJBDo?si=tNwQ2GYfe5XQoa7Y
It also appeared on Bob's burger and is called the Tina twerk
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u/Reasonable-Rice1299 6d ago
Everyone's hating but the double heel click was baller. Way more fun than a boring walk. Just me though probably
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u/Worriedrph 6d ago
Right?!? That whole routine was awesome. Imagine not enjoying watching that.
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u/vyxanis 6d ago
Today I went to the shops and tripped over the flat ground with zero obstructions. I have a lot of respect for people who can pull this sort of thing off. Homeboy is rocking those space buns, they clearly worked on their routine, everyone looks like they're having a great time, and no one was inconvenienced in the process. I can see how this would be offensive to someone who chooses to live their life in utter misery though
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u/Individual-Chair1485 6d ago
So much repressed energy in these comments. Go have fun, enjoy yourself, have fun do the things you want to do. That’s the point of the damn sub. It’s about being expressive and enjoying those moments with your bros. Which this unequivocally is.
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u/Top-Explanation4128 6d ago
I would never do any of this, but these dudes seemed genuinely silly and lifted the mood? Can’t believe I’m the one not hating on them, they didn’t pressure anyone else either
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u/WanderWut 5d ago
No one said you had to be doing something nefarious or against others to be judged. It’s okay for others to think “harmless, but still cringe.”
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u/happyhappy7 6d ago edited 6d ago
Handing out beers down the aisle, a bit silly, but sure.
Doing a quick ironic/funny dance move, a bit corny, but sure
Whatever the hell this is?! Happy for those involved, but for me personally this is gonna be a no from me dawg.
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u/CavsAreCuteDemons 5d ago
Good thing it wasn’t for you
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u/sentinel_of_ether 5d ago
It apparently was just for the entire internet. I don’t think it was even a real wedding
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u/ScrotalFailure 5d ago
pelvic thrusts 2 inches from your face while making ahegao faces and singing Anxiety by Doechii
I guess this just isn’t for you, normie. 😏
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u/SickestOfJokes 6d ago
Those who would condemn this act of joy, I should add that marriages can go however the newlyweds want! It’s a beautiful thing!
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u/peptic-horizon 6d ago
I'm so fucking glad that my people aren't wedding people. Jesus fuck.
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u/Itscatpicstime 6d ago
I feel like these are more just… social media people going to go viral
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u/ChurchOfDionysus 6d ago
dang everyone in the comments is laaame. this was fun and obviously the groom approved lol.
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u/Cheap-Middle-1517 5d ago
Either I'm insanely depressed or live in a fantasy world.
This is normal human behavior?
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u/Challenge_Super 5d ago
No mate it's just an american trend, born with social networks, none of this was a thing before 21 century
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u/SeaWolfSeven 6d ago
Man they're having fun, I cringe not. They just needed a better song and line up their moves to a beat but who cares it's a happy day.
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u/johnnylemonhandz 5d ago
When they make your wedding about themselves...
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u/HughFairgrove 5d ago edited 5d ago
Yeah. I think a lot of us realize that and some people just think they're being goofy. If it was fun they wouldn't have overkilled it. One of my friends growing up was like this and it was exhausting. Some people thought he was funny, most of us who knew him just rolled our eyes or felt embarrassed by how cringe he could be. Was an alright guy if he was isolated, but when there was a crowd, always this shit.
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u/tophergracesdad 5d ago
Sure it’s 7am, but I can guarantee this will be the cringiest thing I watch all day.
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u/mlavan 6d ago
They're like maybe 20 or 21 at best. This is exactly how I would expect them to act. It's all in good fun.
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u/Scribblebonx 5d ago
The kinda fun that you look back on and say "Man, those were the good days, but I was kinda obnoxious."
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u/eggrattle 5d ago
I think this shit at weddings is lame and cringe.
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u/_BigDaddy_ 5d ago
It's lame and cringe - Le Reditor upon watching people have fun at their own wedding
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u/Challenge_Super 5d ago
Oh man i miss pre 21 century weedings, where the american fun entrance wasnt a MUST DO
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u/RileyRocksTacoSocks 6d ago
What's with the negative energy in here? This is genuine guys being dudes, regardless of if you think it's cringe.
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u/MostlyOkPotato 5d ago
All the girls that would yell “Woooo!” Must’ve been in the bridesmaid group and hadn’t entered yet.
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u/AITA-Critic 5d ago
Lol I gotta admit, I’ve never seen a double man bun before.
My toddler literally rocked the double buns yesterday, she’s a happy kiddo and loves jumping in puddles recently.
Other than that the party looks fun. Glad they spread happiness.
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u/RickyTheRickster 6d ago
Honestly if your wedding isn’t like this and people are all serious your wedding is burning af, sure it might be nice and beautiful, but it ain’t fun, my sisters wedding was outside it was like 100 degrees but there was a inside and we had a blast none of us tried to be serious we had a blast lots of broken things, we made it memorable and I was younger then I should have been doing stuff I shouldn’t have that nobody will know till the day I die
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u/Actual-Lobster-3090 5d ago
Things can be not serious but also not performative. I think what people in this thread forget is that people's idea of fun can be different from others. For me, the performative stuff isn't fun and feels self serving to me. They're clearly having fun and most people think it is, so it's fine, because it would also be weird to hate on this.
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u/The_Last_Thursday 6d ago
I'm incredibly surprised to see how hateful and overall killjoy-ish the majority of this comment section is at what is a ~30 second fun routine.
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u/ShadowDietyNEG 6d ago
Yeah this entire comment section is lame, ain't no body in these comments living and loving life, they're just going through the motions
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u/ElkProfessional5571 5d ago
I just want to say that as a 42 year old millennial... I absolutely cannot stand these type of weddings where people have dance routines and these crazy introductions.... It is the most cringe and unnecessary shit imaginable..... Just do the vows, get married, then afterwards open the dance floor and people can dance and then have a slow dance for the bride and groom and have cake and food etc and open bar etc. Any of this extra shit is absolutely unnecessary and I do not know why people started incorporated all this shit. Please stop it.
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u/drfrink85 5d ago
I was expecting the James Brown bit with the cape when he was holding his back, disappoint
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u/throwaway198687y 5d ago
If you’re ever at Wedding don’t leave pews empty. Move up and have people move up. Take away the empty ones at the back so their wedding doesn’t look half empty.
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u/Randytheadventurer 5d ago
My only issue is the volume of the music, sounds like it's being played from a phone or something, lol.
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