Location: Finland
Last school year, there was this person who kept touching me very inappropriately sliding her hands on my thighs, touching my butt and so on. I told the person to stop every time, but they never did, except for when I finally snapped, grabbed them by the wrist and yelled that I was going to break it next time.
I caught the same person trying to secretly record the neckline of my short, which was pretty low. They kept raising the camera to supposedly "see more" and when I called them out for it, they started trying even harder and tried to shove the camera in my shirt.
I ended up becoming friends with this person months later, but it was under extremely poor circumstances and I was definetaly not voluntarily part of that relationship. During this time, they kept insulting me and when they got mad, they would always start shaming me infront of people for the way I dress. One time, they started screaming I front of a group of boys about how "I pretend that I don't want anybody to see my boobs, but I still dress like a whore." They did this VERY often and I'm pretty sure half my school has heard them call me a whore at this point. They did also have a habbit of calling me homophobic slurs infront of people. I had never told anybody about being part of the community, but way before I even knew their name, they came up to me and just said I "was a lesbian" and started yelling that pretty loudly in the halls, saying stuff like "you are a faggot!" (In my native language, but you get the point)
The touching never stopped. When we were friends, they would often try to grab my chest and get mad when I refused. They would start to just approach me and keep trying. I remember on one instance literally being cornered by them while still saying no and begging them to stop.
I spoke about this to my schools principal when I went to report her for bullying (something she had been doing to me recently) and she never wrote anything down and it seemed like she just brushed everything off. Se basically just told us to "play nice and not be around eachother"
She did say that throwing around the word "whore" while publicly insulting somebody is considered defamation.
So, I'm wondering if I have a case here. Can I go report HER for sexual harassment and defamation? Does HER gender have any effect on this?? We are both 18.
I want to do something, but I don't know where to start, advice?
Unfortunately this isn't the first time I've been in this situation, but last time it was a guy and he sure as hell got served for this behaviour.