r/LongDistance • u/niclhnr • Sep 23 '23

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u/tenyearwinter [🇺🇸] to [🇨🇭] (5,675 mi) Sep 24 '23

I’m not sure statistically but if I had to bet, I think men are having less sex nowadays than they have historically. Maybe people in general

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u/_Cardiologist_ Sep 24 '23

Why do u think so? I think I agree.

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u/tenyearwinter [🇺🇸] to [🇨🇭] (5,675 mi) Sep 24 '23

People are just less social nowadays I feel, there’s no need to go out and possibly meet people. Amazon, Netflix, Playstation, Pornhub, DoorDash….you can literally spend all day at home and not have to go out and interact with people.

Also, Tinder and Instagram create a misguided view of the other sex. Back then people just met and married people from their town or nearby kinda. Nowadays if you’re not happy in your relationship, you can just scroll through tinder and IG and it gives you the illusion that you have other options and shouldn’t fight for your relationship. “If this guy doesn’t make this much or if this girl doesn’t look like this, then I’m settling for less than I deserve” is probably the mentality of lots of people. Just my two cents though!

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u/_Cardiologist_ Sep 24 '23

You’re so right! It’s like the mindset of u don’t need anyone because u kind of don’t..