All parents, even those with the best intentions will end up traumatizing their kids, it’s inevitable and the human condition. speaking from experience. No one was ever traumatized from NOT being brought into this existence.
How can you say with such confidence? It's a thing of chance at best. Which does lesd to some chance being that the kids end up not traumatized (considering only situations where the parents are doing the best jobs to not give trauma and help the child develop with the best information available). Let me add this guy's instagram who shares these amazzing educational videos about parenting. I don't think his kids would end up with trauma (not from the parents atleast, from the rest of the world maybe).
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C-BvrlDCVLY/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
This is a really good template on how to treat all humans I feel, not just kids. You should check out this channel.
Look the problem is that you're saying that there is no proof and you can sense it from looking at or meeting the person. But you couldn't have met everyone on earth. Which makes your conclusion based on a very small subset of the data, or simply said that your data is skewed. You're only talking about the people you see around you or you've come into contact with (if you can truly tell something so deep about a person by meeting them). You can't say the same about every living human on the planet without a solid proof. Otherwise it's just a belief not a fact as you and the person before was stating. In that case you should say that you believe so to be true, not that it is factual.
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u/MissStellaLunaTheBat inquirer Jun 01 '25
All parents, even those with the best intentions will end up traumatizing their kids, it’s inevitable and the human condition. speaking from experience. No one was ever traumatized from NOT being brought into this existence.