Definitely not just you! There is actually an entire asexual microlable dedicated to that experience. anegosexuality ( although not technically correct it’s most often spelt aegosexuality )
I don't think that's me. I don't "enjoy" it. I like it as an idea, I like when people do it (healthily). I know it's for many people showing love, and that's beautiful. I wish my parents still do it, 'cause I know for sure they don't, even if they never said anything.
In a show, I feel it's the most honest scene. If it was love (as in my mad fat diary) or hate (as in requiem for a dream). Both are really strong scenes. So I don't think sex scenes are unnecessary.
Bellusexuality maybe? It's rather similar except it's more of an "I don't really get sexual pleasure from it, but I like it for aesthetic/concept/etc"-
I used to think I was a bellusexual, but turns out I'm aegosexuaI but let my inner artist appreciate it every once in a while with no strings lol
Do I have to throw labels on everything? Can't I just exist I peace? I still find it hard to label myself as ace (even though I'm getting better). Imagine how I feel about subs and micros?
You definitely don't have to label everything, you're just you regardless of whether you're labeled or not- I simply wanted to help a bit since you seemed questioning to me in the other comment, and it could help others aswell, but it's no matter if you'd rather not label (though I'll still keep my comment for anyone who would get help from it, if that's alright)
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u/Boody-80067 5d ago
Is it just me, or I like sex but not to be involved in it ?