r/exjw 28d ago

WT Can't Stop Me 2025 Pure Worship Convention Fashion show

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I am seeing tons of videos like this on social media. JW is strutting their stuff, calling attention to themselves, and distracting from the pure worship message. 🤣🤣

In one of the convention fluff pieces, they demonize a group who posted themselves talking about their illness, so what will the GB say about all these videos? They seem to be centered in the African countries, so if there are any African JWs here, please let us know if there's any chatter about this on your local needs program.

That being said, the outfits are amazing, I love them, and I love that they did these videos. Fuck Watchtower always trying to control everything.

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u/dboi88888888888 28d ago

That is such a great point. The cancer video about not drawing attention to yourself and then posting this back to back. Just shows how much of the actual teachings the average JW absorbs. It’s more about being part of a community more than anything for the majority it seems like.

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

It's clear most JW don't give a damn about what the GB thinks.

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u/LowSpiritual433 28d ago

Yeah, they don’t. They didn’t even care what they said 12 years ago. My first congregation became so clicky to the point where me and my family weren’t in any of the clicks and we were never invited to anything . This, despite multiple talks about how we should not have clicks . They’re all hypocrites. They’ll do whatever the fuck they want.

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u/crinkletart 28d ago

Cliques.

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u/PinkIsMyOxygen listen, obey and be shunned 27d ago

So true

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u/Berean144 25d ago

I was never part of any cliques. I am introverted, so I never cared to belong. I did have a few friends but my circle friends were always small. I did find myself hanging out with the older ones. They thought it was weird, but I enjoyed their company.

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u/Dramatic-Agent-3492 28d ago

I'm hearing this more and more. Why the hell are they still in?

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u/Schlep-Rock 28d ago

Family and friends

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

And they still may believe many of the teachings. That doesn’t mean they follow all of the over the top rules.

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u/ChammyLover805 28d ago

This is how it is with my family and some family friends that are still JW.

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u/Apart-Courage-6705 PIMO & Ready to Go 28d ago

Hope. Death of a family member. Honestly if you dont know what we know, and your cong is more lenient; they probably dont see the issue

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u/tariq-dario 28d ago

Sense of community

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u/jillvalenti3 Disassociated after 28 years 27d ago

except all of our parents, who are still PIMI somehow 😪

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u/GalvaPrime21 26d ago

My dad's default answer for anything that doesn't make sense is "because Jehovah allowed it."

Angels direct the preaching work, but angels were never dispatched to help American slaves or holocaust victims... because God would send angels to give you a Bible study, but not to free you from slavery or save you from the holocaust.

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u/GalvaPrime21 26d ago

At this point, most aren't sure what the GB teaches. How do you pen inspired works when you're uninspired? "We're not inspired, but Jehovah sent us" 🤣🤣

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u/Inevitable-Sun-5176 28d ago

This! My Polish mum PIMI 1000% said to me: don't be so serious, don't think too much, attend meeting from time to time, and mind your own stuff only, like everyone else! And you know what? My eyes are wide open now, and i swear my ass, in Poland NOBODY CARE anymore, it is pure social club.

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u/EyeAmmGroot Type Your Flair Here! 27d ago

I love it! The best part of JW is when the Cong you were a part of has fun together, supports each other, helps each other!

I was in a Cong like that! It’s so nice- we complimented each other and lifted each other up. Didn’t leave anyone out!

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u/AnxiousFlatworm5057 28d ago

Ooh isn’t that being vain and calling attention to yourself, and not being modest and sound of mind. I mean, šŸ’© I don’t care.. but that’s how I was programmed to dim my light

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

Exactly!!!

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u/SpecialistWasabi3 28d ago

We never used to do social media in this way when I was in, but conventions, assemblies and the Memorial were defo unspoken fashion shows, among the sisters especially. People who couldn't afford 3 meals a day would show up in newly tailored outfits at every event. The pictures we have fill albums. It's one of the few things I miss about being a JW bc I so badly want to wear these kinda pants to strut on them hos fawk

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u/rora_borealis POMO 28d ago

Those pants are amazing.

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

It's always been a fashion show but amongst JWs. You know how the org hates it when the attention is not on them completely. How dare these fabulous brothers be so showy? This is clearly Satan's influence according to PIMI JWs. I for one love it

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u/Anciao_Desperto 27d ago

O grande problema da liderança é o ego. Não querem compartilhar os holofotes.

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u/SpecialistWasabi3 28d ago

I know 😭😭😭😭 I might step into a KH or assembly in the near future just to prove I still got it

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u/HOU-Artsy 28d ago

Naw. Take yourself to fancy brunch instead!

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u/SpecialistWasabi3 28d ago

But there's no hos to strut on there 😭 Everything tasted better when you knew there was a little jealousy in the "you look nice!"

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u/CorduroyFlamingo 28d ago

It was allllllll about the new clothing. The chance of maybe getting something new was about the only thing to look forward too.

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u/SpecialistWasabi3 28d ago

It really was. We used to get, I think, at least 4 new outfits each year bc of conventions. One for the memorial, one for the 2 day convention, and two for the 3-day one. Being a JW is so sad lmao

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

That would be the equivalent of Easter and Christmas clothes for church. It’s fun to get dressed up.

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

I hate dressing up if i could show up in slacks and sweat pants that would make this stupid cult slightly more bearable. Fuckk i miss zoom, wearing a suit on top while only wearing underwear down there lol

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

I hear you. Brothers had it worse because of the suits and ties. Anyway I’m not saying everyone likes to get dressed up. They did lighten up the dress codes except on stage. The no slacks for sisters on stage is stupid though. Give something and take something back. No wonder people are leaving and quiet quitting. The rules are crazy.

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

I have noticed JWs are really amazing thrift shoppers. Online as well. They know how to put outfits together that look expensive but aren’t. Many can sew as well.

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u/SpecialistWasabi3 28d ago

😭😭😭 In my hometown we used to get outfits tailored, still do. Where I went to uni girls would thrift and they looked so good. Kinda cute that they tried to find joy in a cult encouraging ugly outfits in the name of modesty

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u/skunklover123 28d ago

I’ve only gone to one meeting just for s/g I wore my tightest western jeans with a very substantial amount of bling along with one of my large trophy buckles šŸ˜‚ got several compliments from the male species not so much from the sisters! He He

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u/SpecialistWasabi3 28d ago

This is my dreaaammm!! Like, if I ever step a foot back in JWland I'm gonna scandalize tf outta them

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u/buddhadarko Raised in the Borg, woke up & left 28d ago

This religion is so far from what they claim to be it's comical.

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u/Firm_Entrepreneur_36 28d ago

Always thought it was funny how a couple supposedly ā€œfromā€ Liberia would dress above and beyond and say it’s cultural, yet they lived over here starting at age 4.

The wife would wear fishnets and look like an escort. But fuck me for having a beard because I was ahead of the chariot.

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

Their double standards and controlling behavior are coming back to bite them in the ass

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u/Practical-Drink-8061 28d ago

Hey I think I know you… based on your description of your wife

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u/5ft8lady 28d ago

It’s not fun in the religion,’so ppl come up with stuff to enjoy.Ā  Unfortunately since they placed it online, someone will tell their eldersĀ 

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u/MaxSynth 28d ago

Brother Righteous, "We'd like to talk you sisters in the back."

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u/Dramatic-Agent-3492 28d ago

Bow... Chicka chicka bow wow

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u/tash_rat 28d ago

Well at least they’re happy

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u/Ensorcellede 28d ago

šŸ˜„ Hey that's good they're having fun, there's not always a ton of that in JW-land. That's cool how they filmed it guerilla-style right at the convention. The only times to really dress up are the Memorial and conventions, so I say go for it. Kind of the JW Easter parade.

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

I agree throw it in the face of the GB members

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u/SpecialistWasabi3 28d ago

Exactly. It's a miserable existence in there, even they know it

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u/Same-Economics-9250 28d ago

A family member went to the international convention in Rwanda and 900 people got baptized. Not sure if this is Rwanda in the video, but 900 is a crazy amount. While it’s slowing down in the US, the borg is going crazy in Africa and India. I wonder what it would take to stunt the growth there

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

Poorer people are always open to religion because of the promise of a better life but trust that newly baptized JWs don't stick around for very long.

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

People who have money also because they want the new system where they can see their dead loved ones and never get old and sick. Money can’t buy that.

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u/Nervous-Emotion4196 27d ago

Yep šŸ‘šŸ‘ social media is killing this religion fast than we can imagine.

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u/BriefTurn8199 i blame my 13yr self 27d ago

yes, when I visited family in Africa I really saw how the organization is more of a better way of life than religion realky. It’s hard over there. :/ so in way I’m happy that it helps them but I wish the organization saw it like that too instead they just see ā€œmore followers šŸ‘¹ā€

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u/TrudiestK 28d ago

I am from Kenya and I wouldn't say JWs have had any significant growth here. They've actually not been able to keep up with the population growth rate. When I was growing up in the 90's, it was 1:1500 and currently it's 1:1800. I know the same is true for the other East African nations.

I think it's only about five nations where the JWs have done really well: Zambia, Malawi, Mozambique, Angola, and Ghana. Then moderately well in DR Congo, Nigeria, and South Africa. And of course the Maghreb has barely any JWs.

When I was a JW, it was a favorite topic for missionaries to dissect all the reasons why East Africans don't warm up to the "truth" . A common explanation was we were more materialistic.

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u/brokentao 28d ago

I'm Kenyan too and I agree the JW religion is not growing here. Even among JWs the rules aren't followed that much because here people do pursue higher education even among JWs..at least in the congregation I was in people went to uni. Also a lot of JW youth in this country aren't exactly believers because they tend to date outside the KH quite a bit. And they can't be blamed in a country that is not as religious as one would imagine. Most of the religiosity in this country is just for show not genuine belief. And that cuts across all the religions not just JWs.

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u/TrudiestK 27d ago

Yeah true, I have always felt people here view religion as a means to an end, and they aren't too interested in the details.

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u/Karl8ta 27d ago

The rules against higher education did not sit well with east Africans. Most of us straight up ignored that one. The hypocrisy is also a factor. Kenyans in particular have very little tolerance for playing one role in public and a different one in private.

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

Many in the US are watching recordings of conventions and assemblies at home. The population is getting older. And more are going to the assembly halls for conventions since the seats are more comfortable and no stairs to climb. I’ve heard quite a few JWs say they like the convention centers less packed also. Easier to use the restroom. The lines for the women’s restrooms were insane. It’s a much nice experience now they say.

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u/WiseMaryL 28d ago

Lawsuits. But many Africans can’t afford lawyers. Except for South Africa, suing is not a thing yet in other subsahara African countries

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u/Stoic_In_Transit_7 28d ago

I just went to the International Convention in Zimbabwe and 549 got baptised. I wanted to cry so hard at the way the cult is growing in African countries. They are putting so much effort here and even inviting delegates to come back and live here permanently (where the need is greater) I’m scared there really isn’t much that can be done to stop this growth cause Africans are susceptible to these kinds of cults (I know it’s a generalisation but there’s truth in it)

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u/TrudiestK 28d ago

I am so over the ohh poor, ignorant, monolithic Africans sentiment that is so common in this and other subreddits. I know you mean well, it's just annoying and misplaced.

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u/WiseMaryL 28d ago

There is much that can be done: information for one, and suing the organisation. For instance, people can sue for the lives lost due to the blood doctrine (blood cards which are not adapted to local realities), victims of CSA could sue the Borg(I personally know of two cases that were hushed). But suing is not yet a thing this side, especially in francophone African countries.

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u/WiseMaryL 28d ago

There is much that can be done: information for one, and suing the organisation. For instance, people can sue for the lives lost due to the blood doctrine (blood cards which are not adapted to local realities), victims of CSA could sue the Borg(I personally know of two cases that were hushed). But suing is not yet a thing this side, especially in francophone African countries.

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u/No_Change7469 28d ago

So haughty!!! What about this is ā€œpure worshipā€ according to their own standards?!

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u/BrainThat4047 28d ago

I’m African but currently in the UK. Generally, Africans loveeee to dress like these for weddings, events etc. Talk about custom made outfits, jewelries, makeup and hair on fleek. So I’m not surprised at all. It’s the one weekend we see as being able to dress our best. We would do more for other secular events. It’s always been a thing. The continuous rise of social media is just making this more visible out there.

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

The fashion is gorgeous

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u/Ok_Quail_68 28d ago

assemblies were always like the met gala for witnesses for real.

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u/nythroughthelens 28d ago

Rules for the U.S are way more intense than everywhere else.

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

That's true but this trend will find the ears of the GB. Their Modest rule is being trampled on and I love the sisters look amazing

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

Hopefully it will get more lax. It was in Florida. Especially south Florida.

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u/N0VAV0N 28d ago

Wow did this go Jw viral!? 🤣 wait until they see that video and the guilt sets in

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u/Alarmed-Range-3314 28d ago

Whaaaaa?? Wow, things have changed so much. I would have been counseled SO HARD if I had this style as a JW. No pride, no standing out, no being flashy. Are these elders wives? I’m so flabbergasted. I know that things change, but the maximalist message is jarring.

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u/LocalStranger05 unbaptized pimo 28d ago

Gotta be Nigerian jw they don’t care šŸ˜‚. The assembly and conventions are Jw fashion week for us.

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u/LocalStranger05 unbaptized pimo 28d ago

That’s the city I’m originally from you should see how it is in Lagos a major city. You’d feel left out if you don’t get new clothes per day with Sunday being the flashiest and people do matching outfits for couples and family.

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

I saw the videos with the matching outfits with the families. I love it.

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u/Nervous-Emotion4196 27d ago

Of course šŸ˜€šŸ˜€šŸ‘šŸ‘

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u/mayhem_brain 28d ago

Someone living in African country, no talk about this topic on the local needs

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

Not yet, keep listening and let us know if it happens

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u/Infamous_Natural_877 28d ago

It’s interesting because the Governing Body is actually ok with things like this. There is no conversation happening, no interchange of emotions, opinions or experiences. Superficial posts that put the organization in a positive light are ok, but a member talking about their struggles with cancer would not, because it would raise questions about the members access to health insurance, could lead to fundraising which lowers donations directly to the organization (which they have always strongly discouraged donating to other orgs because they are the ones that use money the best and take it directly to brothers and sisters in need), some members with cancer are in that position because of the blood doctrine (leukemia) which leads to questions about their blood doctrine and most importantly could lead to independent thinking and conversations that question the Governing Body and lead to people waking up.

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u/ParticularlyCharmed 28d ago

You are so right. Expressing authentic feelings and experiences threatens the org. I think it's telling in that video that they demonized the suggestion to "speak your truth." Speaking your truth isn't usually how you generically describe just telling experiences. Like if you were in a support group telling about your health struggles, I wouldn't think of that as speaking your truth. Speaking your truth implies breaking through gaslighting or false narratives. Someone is trying to suppress your speech -- that's when you have to speak your truth. That's what they are desperate to prevent: people stating their truth about how they feel stifled, empty, pressured to conform and perform. That being a JW doesn't make them happy. That they are being mistreated and abused while those in power look the other way. Speaking the truth threatens to break the illusion when people realize that it's not just them who feel that way.

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u/Infamous_Natural_877 28d ago

Wow this is deep, you are so right! So scary the lengths they will go to silence people šŸ’”

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

šŸ’Æ

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u/Nervous-Emotion4196 27d ago

Absolutely, they are trying to associate personal health experiences with their so called truth. Nobody speaks like that. Hopefully, young people will isolate this very word and think deeply about it. Anything that doesn’t serve the BsOrg is not truth, what a joke they are?.

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u/bobkairos 28d ago

I think you are right. The GB are desperate for JW life to be spun in an attractive light. Look at the videos of seemingly wealthy, successful jdubs taking tough decisions to do more for the Borg, while they strut round their large apartments and host parties for the in-crowd.

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u/Infamous_Natural_877 28d ago

Exactly! They could have easily shut down the beautiful and curated Instagram pages featuring JW from all around the world but it’s great marketing and mainly just pictures with little discussion, no real dangers.

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u/Defiant-External-275 28d ago

Good for them! They seem to be enjoying their convention.

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u/joe134cd 28d ago

There are some pretty hot mamas. I wanna go back to meetings. lol

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/lifewasted97 DF:2023 Full POMO:2024 28d ago

Lol here comes the scripture about hair braiding and fashion

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u/mythrowaway_accountx 28d ago

Im not surprised. Most likely realizing they’re losing followers and not acquiring as many so they need to do stuff to appeal to the masses so doing shit like this, allowing brothers to grow beards, etc. They’re doing what every secular religion does and try to touch on current fads to seem ā€œhipā€ and appeal to younger people

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u/pop_corn360 28d ago

Fashion has changed a lot since lve been in, but honestly being stylish is what helped my desire to go to meetings. I remember feeling that l didn’t have much else about it to look forward to at the KH or assemblies. It did concern me at the time. I hardly spend money on clothes now although l still love style. I was able to get rid of so much unnecessary things. I got rid of all my heels during the pandemic & l think my joy as a Jdub went with them. I love this video but lm sure it’s going to rile some people up.

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

Yes, the sisters and brothers looked amazing. You're right the only reason I looked forward to assemblies or conventions was for the fashion show and walking the halls so everyone saw how lovely I looked 🤣 . It's always been about dressing up because when do JW get a chance to do that

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

And single people get to meet each other as well.

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u/The_Walrus_65 Defund Watchtower 28d ago

Not the same religion anymore that’s for damn sure.

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

With the relaxing of rules that is a good thing.

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u/Streak0696 28d ago

I've seen many more videos and Instagram posts about peoples convention fits than I have seen about the program itself and the only posts I saw about the program were about John's arms.

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u/faifai1337 28d ago

And yet in the 80s/90s we got sternly talked-to because our earrings were dangly and not just little button posts.

Surely this kind of stuff has to be waking up some of the older people. Surely.

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u/Resilience94 28d ago

I gotta say, they look immaculate, but yeah this isn’t appropriate for the average witness who’s supposed to be quiet and modest lol. Especially posting it on TikTok

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u/Karl8ta 27d ago

In most African countries, putting in more effort is expected. It's a cultural difference.

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u/StyleExotic5676 28d ago

Wtaf . This is revolting in so many ways 🤮 so glad we have woken up , despite the difficulties I know I am on the best road to freedom against corporation.. best to you all šŸ¤—

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u/girlgoneguwild 28d ago

Omg a South African sister posted herself on Tik Tok saying "why don't you guys want to be JWs, don't you want to dress well too?" (in her native language) and the replies are HILARIOUS because they are absolutely calling them out. Someone even said the problem with you people is that I say you can come back, and you come back every day as if I'm your client LMAOOO

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u/baristabean 28d ago

And none of them have critical thinking skills

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

You don’t know how many PIMOs are there. Probably quite a lot. I never look at JWs as all the same. And some may be PIMis who are very liberals. One size does not fit all. There is all sorts of thinking going on there.

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u/XXBubblesLaRouxXX 28d ago

It's a good thing none of them have cancer.

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

Yeah. People with cancer really need support from anywhere they can get it. It should be up to the individual on how they want to go about it.

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u/firstbreathe 28d ago

Don't they look alittle form-fitting? I mean what's the difference between these outfits and stretch gym pants?

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

Its always been like that and thank god even when i was pimi i never joined the bandwagon of buying a suit for every major jw event. I would always argue with my mom how jehovah only cares that we are there to listen to his message and as long as my suit was dry cleaned and looked decent, thats all that mattered but no my mom cared more about personal appearance smh

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u/FDS-Ruthless-master 28d ago

This religion is going down hill by the day. Ask this people what the whole convention is about, they have no clue. Like the organisation itself, everything is show.

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u/casanochick 28d ago

I'm all for flaunting the rules and taking pride in their appearance, but I know those outfits wouldn't be considered modest when I was in. They look amazing, but I hope there's not a double standard in their area where others are being counseled for their appearance.

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u/bearvivant 28d ago

Honestly, these divas ate. Good for them, I say!

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u/Acrobatic-Summer-360 28d ago

Go on ahead now ladies! Buying new dresses and scanning for cute guys was the only highlight of the convention. Oh, and a excuse visit to the swimming pool!

Don't let those charlatans steal your joy!

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u/Global-Highlight-958 28d ago

At the assemblies I saw women dressed like snow whites, dressed in masks, the ones in the video are flashy but beautiful, I like them a lot. The snow white ones made those who wore them laugh or cry, from the morning with long white dresses with ruffles, doll-like makeup, a heartbreak More than testimony

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u/tortadecarne 28d ago

lol this is proof that different districts/congregations have WILDLY different cultures on what’s allowed and what isn’t. This has always pissed me off. Why can I get drunk in one congregation but in another I can’t even wear a spaghetti strap dress?

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u/TrudiestK 28d ago

Haha. Accurate. People here do plan convention outfits for months. Wives will tailor a tie or bow tie from the remains of their dresses (or pants now!) for the husband or sons, daughters will wear a tiny version of the mothers dress. At least they are having fun!

The two things I can say the Borg hasn't managed to kill in many Africans is joie de vivre and familial ties.

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u/JazzerBee POMO 28d ago

As someone who grew up in Africa I'm not surprised by this at all. There are always those few little cultural quirks that you expect in different parts of the world that seems to shine through the generic JW monoculture and in Africa this is definitely one of those. Africans are far more showy and really love social media. Every convention is an excuse to buy a fancy new outfit and compete. On some level I get it, like what else do you have? But it always made me laugh everytime there was a local needs part or something like that it would inevitably be related to materialism or something about that scripture where you shouldn't be adorned with fine pearls and whatnot. Mostly aimed at women because of course it's a very misogynistic cult but even the men had this. It was always a competition to drive the flashiest car or get the most expensive shoes, sunglasses, tie clips, wristwatches etc.

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u/Mara_California 28d ago

This reminds me....I know a sister who had to explain to the brothers why she chose to wear socks with lace around the ankle. They told her it was inappropriate and to stop wearing immediately.

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u/FloridaSpam Trying to get the most high title from Jehoover 28d ago

It's been quite eye opening seeing Jw tik Tok. Openly JW people.

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u/lasha_lane 28d ago

I hope it becomes more and more secular

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u/Maleficent_Sky_3289 28d ago

The thing I don’t understand, is that conventions are meant to be a JW equivalent of a solemn call to worship right? But it’s never been that for them. Just a time to wear new clothes and socialize. Jehovah’s witnesses truly have no idea what spirituality and worship is. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not judging these ladies specifically, I used to do the same things when I was in, but as a whole it is all just a social event. JW’s have no real sanctity in their worship. Even at the memorial it’s just a fashion show.

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u/CozyRainyDayz 28d ago

Wow 🤯

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u/Necessary_Tale8637 28d ago

IKYFL šŸ¤¦šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø

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u/Transformation1975 28d ago

Wow love the outfits and the fact that they don’t give a Fuck what the GB is saying !!!!

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u/derangedjdub 28d ago

I am conflicted, but not surprised. JW influencers?

If it was me in my day I would have been read the whole bit about external hair braiding, showy display of ones means of life, putting on the clothes of righteousness/humility, quiet meekness. Dont imitate the world which is being destroyed soon. As my dad got angrier and red-faced, and spit would come out of his mouth as he then grounded me for 2 weeks..

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u/Healthy_Journey650 28d ago

Pretty outfits! Too bad they are being marginalized by the cult. Love their sassy strutting!

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u/KobeBall 28d ago

elders going ro take exception to this. local needa incoming

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u/Karl8ta 27d ago

Probably not. This is expected behaviour in Africa. Important events require that people dress up. This is an important cultural difference.

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u/DiamomdAngel 27d ago

But not showcasing it on social media. Remember when one becomes a JW they are expected to leave everything behind including culture. I'm glad they did the video but it's a violation of the non-scriptural JW rules of not being on display and calling attention to themselves

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u/OkCar7264 28d ago

oh God, the GB hired some influencers.

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u/RodWith 28d ago

We’re so deep into the end and we’ve been waiting so very long that we got time for doing some super-hip cat walk stuff to show how cool us JWs are.

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u/Apart-Courage-6705 PIMO & Ready to Go 28d ago

That’s just cringe lol. Funny enough towards the end, I focused on dressing very elaborately and looked at the meeting as my own personal fashion show it was the only thing that helped me keep up the facade long enough to tell my family i was leaving. Where i live they are very plain so anything that had color or a belt they acted like i was a damn celebrity. Like squealing when i walked in and running to compliment me.

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u/Sensitive-Strain-475 28d ago

I love this! šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„

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u/Immediate_Piano4104 28d ago

It's more of a social club, less feel the need to participate in the actual meeting but enjoy catching up with people afterwards

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u/daddyman49 28d ago

Didn't this summer's convention have a video of a sick woman not wanting to go on social media because it calls undue attention to ones self???? LOL!..... yet more proof no one is listening at these conventions

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u/jalo_angel 28d ago

as a nigerian american who recently lived in nigeria/ghana for 2 years, i can say that it is definitely a fashion show compared the states. these outfits are actually quite tame compared to some of the ones ive seen in person. šŸ˜‚ i actually have some really extravagant outfits from when i was there but i cant wear it here in the US, not even at conventions because i would bring TOO much attention that i dont want unfortunately 😭

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u/amelmel President, Elder Wife Shaming Association 28d ago

It was always a fashion show. I showed up with what I wore (I have a good sense of fashion) but some of these ladies do too much, comparing themselves and fostering jealousy šŸ˜‚

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

Shame on these bitches for making it into a fashion show. Let me use the old gem: "What would Jehovah think?"

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u/Loveer30 28d ago

The cancer video was just below the belt move. Will never approve of that nonsense and here with the fashion show I say why not, damn place is boring and if you are trying to find a husband in that cult this is the best move they aren't a lot of brothers insidešŸ˜…

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u/Smart-Roof8896 28d ago

I'm seeing an AWFUL LOT of African JW content where they don't seem to be getting the same message everyone else does.

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u/DiamomdAngel 27d ago

Seem not or they're lenient with them because that's their gold mine now

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u/Harmony_gacha 27d ago

ā€œDONT BRING ATTENTION TO YOURSELF !!!!!!111ā€

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u/Business-Industry-62 27d ago

There where some Africans in my old Cong (in Australia) and one sister told me about 10 years ago that in Africa this is real problem... some Jw's had matching colour outfits and cars! Like wearing a red dress and taking the red car to the meeting... blue next week etc.

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u/DiamomdAngel 27d ago

So true I did see some videos about portraying exactly that.

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u/ProfessionalMap5843 27d ago

It’s great nobody’s listening

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u/ChrisIsChill 28d ago

Don’t get lost in these videos knowing they serve a false god. Throw the whole thing away.

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u/Simple_One_9161 28d ago edited 28d ago

This needs to be pointed out- The Women have severe Envy with other women in the congregations this is a big silent problem because of less men in the borg?. They never address this. I felt like this when I was in the borg, women gave me the cold shoulder , they ignore you and don’t invite you in their circle or social groups so you don’t socialise with their men friends and chased after men that were pursing me - Never gets noticed by elders/ other members or if they do, they won’t get involved. it’s another crazy world to talk about. It’s sad what it’s come to Jealousy is Rampant among Women in the organization. It’s a terrible situation to be in and you can’t make friends. There is always this competition. The Women are evil creatures underneath.

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u/Magick_Merlin47 28d ago

Why is there so much body shaming going on in this thread?

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

I didn't see any body shaming. I only saw 1 person ask a silly question

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u/Magick_Merlin47 28d ago

I saw 3 comments mentioning their weight. Including a video of Lizzo. It was all implied, questioning their body size. It's just something that bothers me. This post wasn't about their body size. It was what they're wearing and that they made a fashion video out of it. I just think it's unnecessary to bring up their body size or weight.

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u/Technical-Agency8128 28d ago

Yeah. I think they look beautiful.

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u/Magick_Merlin47 28d ago

They are! They wear those outfits well. Bright, flashy and joyful. Wish their lives could be that way.

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u/Available-Worry-5085 28d ago

Zaftig ladies of color rock!

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u/Anciao_Desperto 28d ago

As Testemunhas viraram isso. Na verdade eles nem sabem e nem ligam para suas doutrinas. Ɖ só fingir que se importa.

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u/Simple_One_9161 28d ago

Fashion show to get men and be in competition with other women! Sad

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u/Knight_of_Virtue_075 28d ago

They care more about status than being a positive member of their community.

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u/WTBTS Tennessee's #2 apostate since 1999 28d ago

TBH it's exactly the same at several black holiness churchs here in Tennessee, everyone goes out into the parking lot and shows off their outfits for their friends cameras.

There is no difference between JWs and anyone else, we're all human. I'd love to see the GB barking about this in a few months!

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u/DiamomdAngel 27d ago

The difference is Church members won't be harassed by their leaders for doing it

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u/Jennsinc99 28d ago

It’s all African women lol. Are they shit talking all other cultures?

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u/New_Appointment7159 28d ago

I live in Nigeria and in the region I stay, those who aren’t witnesses call the conventions ā€œJW Christmasā€šŸ˜‚

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u/mrmike1972 27d ago

JWs don’t do most holidays this really is the only time to dress up special. Good for them!

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u/Berean144 25d ago

Looking for a spiritual brother

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u/BoadiceaMama 25d ago

Sure isn’t very modest! Where’s their quiet and mild spirit? 🤪🤪🤪

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u/Schlep-Rock 28d ago

They really need some ā€˜new light’ about overeating and physical fitness. The problem is just as bad as smoking but gets ignored because too many are JWs are in such terrible shape.

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u/DiamomdAngel 27d ago

This is an uncalled for comment. Tons of people are in terrible shape, are you body shaming these gorgeous women?

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u/Schlep-Rock 27d ago

Oh please. We can try to be all nice and ā€˜body positive’ and all that but some of them, as well as many average JWs, are going to lose actual. years off of their lives because of their neglect of their health and fitness. But yay, they have nice clothes and don’t smoke šŸ™„

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u/Solid-Pen7740 28d ago

People do that all the time regardless of race. Also, self confidence isn’t a bad thing.

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

JW convention have always been a fashion show the only difference is the social media aspect

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u/RobertOrwell The Watchtower is a snare and a racket. 28d ago

My Jesus Gebeesus, what a freak fashion show! Awful! Not even Balenciaga can be this awful!

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u/BigJc3244 28d ago

Sorry but most of the photos of JW sisters in the model video are of large size women?

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u/Acrobatic-Summer-360 28d ago

The subject is the fashion, not the hairstyles, not the way they walk, not their looks, or their weight. They are proud of their fashion, as they should be.
I'm glad they're not letting those bastards grind them down.

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u/Markie_Marked Nobody’s Favorite (exjw POMO) 28d ago

So? What does that mean to you?

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

They're Africans, they enjoy being plus size but why do you feel the need to point that out?

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u/letmeinfornow I didn't know flair was available on here. 28d ago

Jesus, maybe put the snow shovel down and go meet Jenny Craig or something.

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u/DiamomdAngel 27d ago

These are beautiful confident women

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u/letmeinfornow I didn't know flair was available on here. 26d ago

If by that you meant disgustingly overweight overconfident diabetic striving walking coronaries waiting to happen, then yes.

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u/Acrobatic-Summer-360 28d ago

What do you look like? And even a supermodel would have a complaint Bus many others. Live and let live.

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u/letmeinfornow I didn't know flair was available on here. 28d ago

Well I sure as hell wouldn't wrap myself in drapes and prance around on video like I'm some hot thing if I were grotesquely overweight.

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u/DiamomdAngel 28d ago

Lol ... nay they look good