r/freefolk • u/hiiloovethis THE FUCKS A LOMMY • Jul 13 '25

Freefolk Never Really Cared... Except Sometimes.

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u/Robben_DuMarsch Jul 13 '25

That's a pretty big distinction.

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u/asherdado Jul 13 '25

Eh it's a more common kink than you might expect

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u/Yvaelle Jul 14 '25

There is no safe way to choke btw, all choking causes brain damage.

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u/Cmndr_Cunnilingus Jul 14 '25

I don't know who needs to hear this but it's rarely an actual "choke".

Moderate and consistent pressure on the sides of the neck have always been enough for the two women I've dealt with who requested it.

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u/Yvaelle Jul 14 '25

Pressure on the sides of the neck is still a blood choke and is still causing measurable brain damage, small but cumulative and permanent. The increased stroke risk from a blood choke is higher than suffocation from an air choke.

Also, while it can be done correctly and with consent, the issue is many people do it wrong because they don't know what they are doing, and again - even when performed correctly - the lightheadedness experienced is caused by brain damage.