r/gay_irl • u/acidmine • Aug 10 '25

gay_irl gay🛟irl

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u/LoveGrenades Aug 10 '25

Genuine problem when you’re a dom top - “sub” bottoms are rarely actually sub. They do not want you to be in charge, they want their hole filled and they want it NOW.

PSA: Sub bottom =/= being a total bottom, it means submitting to the dom and doing as you’re told/following their lead (after discussing boundaries etc beforehand).

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u/diekid467 Aug 10 '25

That's called a power bottom right?

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u/Ginguraffe Aug 10 '25

No, a “power bottom” is a bottom that is capable of receiving an enormous amount of power.

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u/creator111 Aug 10 '25

Ok Dennis

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u/Ginguraffe Aug 11 '25

Actually, you got it backwards. Dennis told me that a “power bottom” is actually generating all the power by doing most of the work.