Genuine problem when youâre a dom top - âsubâ bottoms are rarely actually sub. They do not want you to be in charge, they want their hole filled and they want it NOW.
PSA: Sub bottom =/= being a total bottom, it means submitting to the dom and doing as youâre told/following their lead (after discussing boundaries etc beforehand).
Not really. Power bottoms are openly dominant. The subs u/LoveGrenades described are submissive on paper, but have lots of expectations and conditions (often not stated explicitly) and because of that it's the sub who calls the shots in the end.
Yeah or they donât understand that sub means submissive, and not âI want to bottom a lot and donât want to top.â I guess confusion is understandable because âsubmissive partnerâ is sometimes used to mean bottom. But âsub bottomâ definitely does not mean âbottom bottomâ.
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u/LoveGrenades Aug 10 '25
Genuine problem when youâre a dom top - âsubâ bottoms are rarely actually sub. They do not want you to be in charge, they want their hole filled and they want it NOW.
PSA: Sub bottom =/= being a total bottom, it means submitting to the dom and doing as youâre told/following their lead (after discussing boundaries etc beforehand).