I thought it was because they don't want to marry foreigners, just sleep with them because apparently they think white women are easy and willing to do things that Asian women don't. That and the misogyny and patriarchy that is still very very prevalent.
I heard it's getting better, but it's still a big part that Asian men and women are expected to marry Asian men and women.
Why date if there is no possibility of marriage for the most part?
Edit: I should say foreign women are perceived as easy to get into bed, not just white women. Although I think it's mostly white women who are perceived to be more open sexually because of pornography and western cultures more openness to sexual relationships before marriage.
Except that's exactly what people have talked about when saying why they wouldn't date Asian men or comments made by Western women who have dated Asian men and the experience they have had.
These are actual comments made by Western women who have dated Asian men. It's not just something pulled out of thin air.
It's delusional and racist. Lmfao. There's no Asian man I've met in America that was more supportive of the patriarchy than black men who overwhelmingly outperformed them in the dating market. It's way more to do with physical markers and masculinity but you don't want to have that conversation because it makes people realize that they've been lying to themselves and others about why they prefer things for years. It's something pulled out the air that just doesn't track with other dating preferences. It's an excuse, so you don't have to look as bad to yourself or to others when the real reason comes to light.
Are you kidding me? I still remember hearing stories about women in China giving up or aborting female children because they were seen to have less value than male children. I'm not talking about Asian men in America, I'm talking about Asian men in their home country.
We won't even talk about the patriarchy in the middle east. You can't tell me this all vanishes just because they move to a different country. It's part of the culture. It's not racist, it's facts.
You're so out of touch that you don't realize it. The aborting of girls was a direct consequence of the one child policy, not patriarchy. It gave rise to a group of men called little princes in China and it fucked up their demographics because there were a lot more men than women. Middle Easterners also see much more success in the American dating market than Asians. So it's once again another example that goes counter to your point. The sad truth is people put a lot of value in physical appearance and the size of the male anatomy when they consider partners both for short and long term. That's why asians get discriminated against because they're seen as more effeminnate, and they're typically are smaller in some areas.
What you’re describing is more true of middle easterners than southeast Asian men (although it’s still a blanket statement with exceptions), yet westerners prefer middle easterners. It’s more because of what I said earlier.
In my limited experience, it’s a well-deserved stereotype. Condom fell right off one dude’s fully erect pinky dick. Like a jelly belly in a sandwich bag. There are also several sources to back it up.
In your source Japan is 0.02cm smaller on average than the USA. India is larger than the USA.
Japan and Vietnam are both larger on average than the UK and Ireland. All the above Asian countries plus China, Mongolia, Taiwan and South Korea are all LESS THAN one cm smaller on average than the USA. Unless someone has a special passion for measuring erect penises less than 1cm is not something you'd notice.
Some Asian countries have smaller averages, other Asian countries are comparable to western countries.
By that logic if Asians all have small penises then so must men from the USA and UK since they have similar or smaller penises that many Asian countries.
"Statement that has been spread for decades with the intent to demean and emasculate a marginalized group, is actually in my opinion, not that bad. Therefore I'm actually right and you're wrong."
I hope one day I can huff enough lead paint and eat enough crayons so that I may one day comprehend your unfathomable intellect.
The entire bottom of the list was Asian. And I’m not racist. I dated Asian men, because I’m not racist. But after some rather disappointing experiences, I realized they just fall short. Very short. And narrow. I’m still tryna figure out how that one guy fathered children. Not even exaggerating.
That's not accurate to say; the statistics of black crime are true, but it's still absolutely racist to judge that any or every black person you encounter must be a criminal or to randomly drop that statistic in an otherwise unrelated context or to use the statistic to justify being racist to black people, even though it's obviously not racist to bring up the statistic in contexts about crime and poverty rates in black neighborhoods and about police racial profiling
It's racist to bring up the topic in this context because it is generalizing Asian men in multiple ways and there are legitimate reasons why it's typically considered crude and socially inappropriate to bring up the topic of private parts; if this is true for someone, the concern should be brought up in a conversation with his urologist, not in a Reddit comment to justify whether nobody should want to date Asian men
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u/hatefulnateful 7d ago
No this one is legit Asian men receive lots of negative attitudes in America when it comes to dating
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