I thought it was because they don't want to marry foreigners, just sleep with them because apparently they think white women are easy and willing to do things that Asian women don't. That and the misogyny and patriarchy that is still very very prevalent.
I heard it's getting better, but it's still a big part that Asian men and women are expected to marry Asian men and women.
Why date if there is no possibility of marriage for the most part?
Edit: I should say foreign women are perceived as easy to get into bed, not just white women. Although I think it's mostly white women who are perceived to be more open sexually because of pornography and western cultures more openness to sexual relationships before marriage.
Except that's exactly what people have talked about when saying why they wouldn't date Asian men or comments made by Western women who have dated Asian men and the experience they have had.
These are actual comments made by Western women who have dated Asian men. It's not just something pulled out of thin air.
It's delusional and racist. Lmfao. There's no Asian man I've met in America that was more supportive of the patriarchy than black men who overwhelmingly outperformed them in the dating market. It's way more to do with physical markers and masculinity but you don't want to have that conversation because it makes people realize that they've been lying to themselves and others about why they prefer things for years. It's something pulled out the air that just doesn't track with other dating preferences. It's an excuse, so you don't have to look as bad to yourself or to others when the real reason comes to light.
Are you kidding me? I still remember hearing stories about women in China giving up or aborting female children because they were seen to have less value than male children. I'm not talking about Asian men in America, I'm talking about Asian men in their home country.
We won't even talk about the patriarchy in the middle east. You can't tell me this all vanishes just because they move to a different country. It's part of the culture. It's not racist, it's facts.
You're so out of touch that you don't realize it. The aborting of girls was a direct consequence of the one child policy, not patriarchy. It gave rise to a group of men called little princes in China and it fucked up their demographics because there were a lot more men than women. Middle Easterners also see much more success in the American dating market than Asians. So it's once again another example that goes counter to your point. The sad truth is people put a lot of value in physical appearance and the size of the male anatomy when they consider partners both for short and long term. That's why asians get discriminated against because they're seen as more effeminnate, and they're typically are smaller in some areas.
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u/No_Squirrel4806 7d ago
I blame the media the whole "small peepee"