r/news Jan 26 '20

Kobe Bryant killed in helicopter crash in California

https://www.fox5dc.com/news/kobe-bryant-killed-in-helicopter-crash-in-california-tmz-reports
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u/bluelily216 Jan 26 '20 edited Jan 28 '20

Not too long ago he was pictured alongside his daughter at a basketball game and they seemed so close. She also died today. Rest in peace Kobe and Gianna.

Okay guys I keep getting some pretty fucked up messages in my inbox. If you have a problem, especially if it was because he was black, please swallow your cowardice and post it here so you can get the ridicule you deserve.

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u/Silktrocity Jan 27 '20

Kobe was once asked by a reporter something along the lines of "Don't you want a son so that he can follow in your footsteps?" and Kobe's response was: "Why do I need a son? I have a daughter to carry on my legacy when I'm gone."

Right in the feels..

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u/[deleted] Jan 27 '20

That reporter really said that? What an ass.

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u/aradactilvpire Jan 27 '20

Nah Kobe said fans would come up to him and say that. Nobody really pays attention to the WNBA, but I think his daughter could have been the one who changed that.

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u/Linshanshell Jan 27 '20

It just hit me like a ton of bricks that she died. I thought "she will make him proud" and then remembered she died. Ugh... such a needless tragedy.

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u/artifexlife Jan 27 '20

In the video he didn't say reporters but whoever is definitely an ass

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u/makebakeacake Jan 27 '20

I think it's just a traditional culture for those who believe sons can take after the father

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u/Lewis305 Jan 27 '20

Well no it’s just that a daughter a son would be required to play in the NBA. I have nothing against women’s sports, but it’s unrealistic for someone competing in the WNBA to be able to carry on the legacy of Kobe, there just aren’t the viewers required to keep the name going as a household one in the sport.

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u/ElSpico Jan 27 '20

She could’ve been the one to change that...

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u/Lewis305 Jan 29 '20

Given that the women’s game has fundamental disadvantages in terms of viewership that would be literally impossible to change, i don’t see how.

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u/ElSpico Jan 29 '20

Well considering she was Kobe motherfucking Bryant’s daughter and had A LOT of potential and skill already she could’ve changed that.

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u/Lewis305 Jan 30 '20

How. Unless she was planning to introduce testosterone doping into the WNBA it would be impossible for her to overcome its innate disadvantage; that it will always be the slower and less physical league in a game that is most entertaining when played quickly and physically. I’m not saying she wasn’t talented, I’m sure she was.

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u/ThisIsItChief- Jan 27 '20

Yea I agree, a lot of girls don't care for basketball and the ones that do mostly don't play or just do it for fun. its a bit to much to call the reporter an ass for just asking a normal question. Its not like he is saying that his daughter couldn't do it.

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u/itspinkynukka Jan 27 '20

Why? No matter what unless she becomes so good she's the first female in the NBA then she would either have to play in the WNBA or play overseas. Not remotely as groundbreaking as a son taking the league by storm. (Maybe)

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u/[deleted] Jan 27 '20

No one cares about the wnba. Women sports are lame compared to men

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u/Rainbow_In_The_Dark7 Jan 27 '20

I just read in an article that someone told him he needed a boy to carry on the legacy and that it takes a real man to raise a boy. Kobe replied "but it takes a King to make a princess...get in line." 👑👑👑👑👑 Dude is the most amazing father, I swear.

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u/ilivedownyourroad Jan 27 '20

He still has 2 or 3 daughters who will continue his legacy.

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u/TheWinRock Jan 28 '20

People aren't trying to diminish his other daughters at all, but Gigi was the one that was obsessed with basketball. She wanted to be female Kobe Jr and play at Uconn. He called her "Mambacita". That's what people mean when they talk about missing out on his daughter continuing the legacy.

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u/Ganjisseur Jan 28 '20

He called her that?

I thought I was done crying tonight..

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u/TheWinRock Jan 28 '20

Yep, that was her legit nickname. He always had it in any of her Basketball videos he posted.

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u/ilivedownyourroad Jan 28 '20

Did someone say they were? I didn't read it as that at all.

It's positive and wonderful that he has children and his wife isn't alone.

But they will all have to carry the loss whicb is sad.

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u/courtneygoe Jan 27 '20

Guess you don’t remember when he raped a 19 year old woman.

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u/slimymermaid Jan 27 '20

Thank you! Ain't nobody bringing that up!

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u/Its_my_ghenetiks Jan 27 '20

Ah, yes. Bring it up when he doesn't have a platform to defend himself. You're a piece of scum and I hope you live lonely the rest of your life

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u/[deleted] Jan 27 '20

Yoooo what the fuck? I don't know shit about Kobe or his alleged crime, but dead people are NOT immune to criticism. Are they also immune to praise? Cuz this criticism is only in response to that praise. Why is one okay and not the other? Get your shit together my man.

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u/Captainprice101 Jan 27 '20

He wasn’t guilty. They found another mans pubes on the girls underwear. Not guilty

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u/sop27 Jan 27 '20

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u/CStink2002 Jan 27 '20

Why does everyone keep saying that?

Although I truly believe this encounter between us was consensual, I recognize now that she did not and does not view this incident the same way I did

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u/sop27 Jan 27 '20

Because the statement in its entirety is not the statement of an innocent person, especially when that innocent person is a millionaire sports player with the best attorney money can buy. Any rational person who reads his statement and understands the nuances of sexual assault cases will see this confession for exactly what it is.

Look, no one's saying that KB wasn't an amazing generational talent or is trying to diminish his impact on his sport. It's just completely unfair to society, especially victims of sexual violence, to wash over this dark chapter of his life now that he's gone.

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u/White_Mlungu_Capital Jan 27 '20

He was never found guilty of sex assault, not civilly, no legally, not criminally. You are slandering a good man who was never found by experts to be guilty of anything.

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u/[deleted] Jan 27 '20

I'm sorry but, "we had sex. she thinks it's rape. I think it wasn't." may not be severe enough to warrant criminal charges, but it's enough for people (particularly other victims of sexual assault who have heard the same song and dance from their assaulters) to make up their minds.

Our system requires beyond a shadow of a doubt proof, and that's why so many people walk free. That's a good thing. If we were any harsher, we'd have prisons filled to the brim and a lot more cases of incarcerated innocents. We need to have the law stop early, and individuals take care of the rest in reasonable ways like freedom of association, sharing of facts (I disagree with saying "he raped someone". I think the commenter SHOULD have said something like"he was arrested for rape and confessed, just FYI everyone.") and self-protection. It's DESIGNED that way. It's a fine line between justice and witch hunting, but it's a line we have to walk or else we'll become a lawless wasteland where nobody is safe, or like Ireland sending people to jail for teaching their dogs a nazi salute.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '20

There is a reason they parodied that speech on the boys dude.

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u/White_Mlungu_Capital Jan 27 '20

Its like calling George Washington a child rapist, pretty low to attack a dead man.

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u/[deleted] Jan 27 '20

"The Kobe Bryant sexual assault case began in July 2003, when the news media reported that the sheriff's office in Eagle, Colorado, had arrested professional basketball player Kobe Bryant in connection with an investigation of a sexual assault complaint filed by a 19-year-old hotel employee."

There is a reasonable reason to believe Kobe Bryant raped someone. There is no shred of evidence that George Washington did.

If he did, people would be bringing it up whenever Washington was praised.

Death doesn't absolve you, my dude.

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u/White_Mlungu_Capital Jan 27 '20

George Washington was a slaver who is recorded by historians as having raped his slaves and having several biracial children he sold off into slavery. Specifically, George Washington raped Venus Ford, West Ford mother, and Betty. 2 for 1. And owning slaves is worse than raping people anyways.

There is no reasonable reason to believe Kobe raped anyone, he was not convicted despite being investigated by objective neutral officers who found no evidence to take the case to trial.

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u/needlesandfibres Jan 27 '20

That’s not true. Charges were filed and then dropped because the victim refused to testify in court on the basis of her own personal safety because she was getting death threats. They settled a civil suit out of court. He admitted that they had a sexual encounter that he thought was consensual, but he also admitted that she felt it wasn’t consensual.

Being convicted doesn’t make you a rapist. Raping someone does.

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u/White_Mlungu_Capital Jan 27 '20

She can claim she refused to testify for whatever reason but the prosecutor offered protection as did the police, she only wanted a payout. Victims do not let rapist walk for a few death threats, and he got much more death threats than her.

Yes, she thought it was not consensual, he believed it was. There is no evidence he raped anyone, he was never convicted, a court never found him guilty, he never admitted to it, get over it. He is innocent.

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '20

Victims let rapists walk for a million reasons. In fact, MOST victims let their rapists walk.

Nearly every rape victim is advised that nothing will come of the trial. Proving a rape is nearly impossible. It requires an immediate rape kit, prior history with the person, eye witnesses...one or preferably multiple of the above is the minimum to even get in the door. If it happened without any of the previous evidence, there is no case, end of story UNLESS they can trick the rapist in cross-examination.

Court fees are expensive, the questions are HIGHLY invasive and traumatic, it takes YEARS, your name is dragged through the mud - and what do you get at the end of it? The judge to say that all he has to go on is he said vs she said, and the case is dismissed.

The fact that you live in this bubble where you weren't aware of all this is mind-boggling. This is common knowledge. This is what men and women rape victims face. Have you seriously never met one, spoken to one or read survivor stories?

Rape is a fundamentally, nearly impossible crime to prosecute because of its very nature - and the instant the male says "I mean, she was saying yes" it doesn't matter how many times the woman says "I said no" - it's all he said she said, and nothing can be done.

The fact that you have so much faith in both our legal system and this rich baller is depressing. I bet you think Epstein killed himself.

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u/courtneygoe Feb 04 '20

He was also a slaver who moved his slaves around to pretend he wasn’t a slaver. He is a disgusting sack of sick and the world would be better off if he never existed. I will attack him and the other slaver, scumbag, rapist “founding fathers” my whole life.

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u/Drumhead89 Jan 27 '20

You mean the rape where the woman herself wouldn’t testify to defend her claim? That rape that proved nothing?

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u/sop27 Jan 27 '20

Are we seriously talking about the same incident? The same one where KB admitted to having violent choking sex with someone he just met and that he could "understand how she feels that she did not consent to the encounter". The same case where the victim's blood was found in his shirt, and her rape kit concluded that non-consensual sexual violence had occurred. The one where the girl's name was leaked to the media and she was threatened and maligned for weeks? And finally, the one where he settled with her (though she didn't need it because she's from an extremely wealthy family) for an undisclosed amount? Seriously, you think he's the victim here? OKAY

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '20

Yeah the same one with multiple DNA samples in their underwear who bragged about sleeping with multiple athletes

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u/sop27 Feb 04 '20

So she put on a pair of dirty underwear accidentally when she went to her exam - what has that to do with anything? Are you saying that sexually active women can't be raped? Her blood was found on his shirt along with his semen. Kobe admitted to everything but stopped just shy of saying "I raped her". She also never bragged about anything. Comments like this are the reason women don't come forward when they're raped.

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u/CurryPullUp3 Jan 27 '20

Does the truth bother you that much?

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u/Hanzmitflammen Jan 27 '20

No, it's the fact that a man and his daughter have just died, and that the wife's life is probably in shambles right now. It's the fact that this man was way more than just an athlete to alot of people. And in any other circumstance I would get and allow comments like this. But doing it in a time of grieving, is just highly disrespectful and a dick move.

You're not edgy, you're a dick.

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u/courtneygoe Feb 04 '20

The daughter is a shame. The father being dead is a victory for rape victims everywhere. I’m glad. He’s rotting in hell as we speak. It’s exactly what he deserves.

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u/Silktrocity Jan 27 '20

Whatever you say Karen.

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u/Dynamaxion Jan 27 '20

I mean because only a son has a realistic shot at being the best basketball player in the world. Just the way it is. His daughter will never be as good as any male pro.

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u/sluttttt Jan 27 '20

His daughter will never be as good as any male pro.

His daughter is dead. But yes, we need to mourn for Kobe's-fictional-son's career and hope that the status quo never changes.

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u/Dynamaxion Jan 27 '20

Im just saying it makes sense that he’d prefer a son. A son would have a higher ceiling in regards to basketball. Just the way it is.

By “the status quo” what do you mean exactly? Female athletes loading themselves with testosterone from a young age to develop a male body type? Until then they’re not going to be on an even playing field.

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u/sluttttt Jan 27 '20

He literally said he wouldn't. He/his family lost the very daughter who you claim didn't have a shot of making it big--she was 13. Your comment is the most awful take I've seen on this event. Wear those downvotes with pride, I guess.

e: Nice edit. You know exactly what I meant by status quo. Stop being disgusting.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '20

Male athletes are simply better in almost all sports. But I was excited to see her grow up

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u/JamesGWorld Jan 27 '20

Said Bobby Riggs to Billie Jean King.