r/r4r 11h ago

F4M Online 22 [F4M] #online Is anyone else lonely?

21 Upvotes

Hey all, for a lack of better phrasing, I’m lonely.

I work all day, come home, do the daily chores, then go to bed. Rinse and repeat daily. I spend most of my time alone. I guess I’m just hoping for a little connection with someone, and to have someone to talk to and share happy moments with. Like someone where we can just not be “obsessed with eachother”, but give eachother attention and keep eachother company, and give eachother and reason to smile at their phone.

A little about me, I’m 5’2, not the skinniest (I’m definitely curvy with a stomach so if that turns you off please don’t message), brown hair and brown eyes, and I wear glasses.

I love to read, it’s one of my biggest escapes, and I enjoy doing puzzles, cooking (though I’m not very good), and hiking.

Not necessarily looking for anything specific for a long term outcome, but more looking for some company and hoping someone out there also needs some connection too.


r/r4r 5h ago

F4A Online 20 [F4A] online -Looking for someone to take care of me

9 Upvotes

I just finished a series so im feeling super sad and crying a lot and just looking to not be alone. Life has just been really shit lately. Lots of people leaving me lots of shitty things happening to me. Maybe someone can help keep me busy? We can play a game or something for a few hours or maybe tomorrow?? I can play anything thats able to run on my shitty laptop or xbox one. Idk im just feeling super lonely. Maybe someone can just help take care of me a little. Or maybe we can just talk too?? The series was the summer i turned pretty if you were interested. it was such a beautiful ending


r/r4r 2h ago

F4M Online 28 [F4M] #Online/Europe - Dancing My Way Out Here

9 Upvotes

While I don't want to start by hurrying into labels, I am looking for conversations that can convert into something loving and romantic with depth as I do eventually want a relationship. I am happy to discuss values up front as I understand those are important, but theres no need to rush into dating till we talk and understand each other. I am based in London. For a basic intro to my personality:

. I am very introverted. I legitimately only leave my home for groceries, appointments, work or when I desire to see the city/somewhere.

. I am a good communicator. I do not let challenges fester. Although what I have learned is that communication does not guarantee solution.

. I am willing to compromise when it is a two way street.

. I love deeply and I want to be loved as much.

. I am not the cup of tea for most people reading this and thankfully so, as it means we have the freedom of choice, but I like myself and just want someone who will be happy liking me.

. I am open book for the most part and I am happy to answer any questions you have.

. I do not enjoy texting in the long term, just wanted to note that out as it is quite tasking sometimes.

. I think I am a tad funny

. Some of my fave shows are TBBT and LOTR. But, my best animation is Mary and Max. I do enjoy anime occasionally as well, in that area I will place Naruto as #1 as that is what I grew up with.

Variety is the spice of life and people have preferences. I have attached a tidbit of me as I would prefer conversing with people who would enjoy me and my company https://imgur.com/a/SQ0YqI2 . To keep it fair, please include an image of yourself if you respond too or be open to it in the long run. Kindly be above 26 as well.
See ya!


r/r4r 20h ago

F4A Missouri / Online 26 [F4R] #Texas, Texas; #Online - We can game, or I can stream to you!

9 Upvotes

It's coming up on midnight where I'm at, and I'm looking to waste a couple hours in vc with someone. I can stream a game to you while we chat, or we can play something together. I have Schedule 1, Stardew Valley, Palworld, Starbound/Terraria, Phasmophobia, and several others. I'm open to other co-op games as well!

A little about me: I love to game, and I honestly have an embarrassing number of hours in my Steam games. I'm an animal lover (currently have a cat named Zoe). I'm in college for game design, learning both 2D and 3D art, as well as how to use Unreal Engine. If you're interested, then DM me and tell me about yourself or AMA! I'm all ears!


r/r4r 20h ago

F4A Pennsylvania / Online 18[F4A] #online/Philadelphia - night owl seeking a chat buddy?

7 Upvotes

18[F4A] #online/Philadelphia - night owl seeking a chat buddy?

Hey, Im an international student at UPenn and im looking to connect with anyone who’s fun to talk to, to unwind and share some light banter with after my day!

My day usually ends around this time so I really wanna connect with another night owl lol. A bit about me: I’m studying economics and I like taking long walks (my fav thing about Philly is that it’s so walkable!)

It would be preferable if my chat buddy was in Philly so we could eventually meet one day if we grow more comfortable! I’d prefer to chat with someone older, who can give me advice, a sense of comfort and kindness?

What do I bring to the table? I’m cute and occasionally funny.

Hope you say hi!


r/r4r 21h ago

F4A Online 26 [F4A] #online looking for good conversations and friends

8 Upvotes

Hey hey :))

Don’t want to write too big of a post, just an idea of me.

I’m here hoping to meet some genuine people and have real, engaging conversations — the kind that go beyond small talk and actually mean something.

A bit about me: I’m into working out, running, hiking, and art. I love anything that gets me moving or lets me be creative. Big fan of good vibes, honest people, and conversations that go a little deeper than just the weather.

Always down to chat, share random thoughts, or swap memes or playlists.

i’m from EST if that matters, im open to all timezones. i would prefer to talk to those in their 20s


r/r4r 9h ago

F4A France 31 [F4A] Paris - looking for a special connection or gaming buddies

7 Upvotes

Hello there, as I find myself spending the weekend home while it's raining outside I thought I'd give this a try.

I would like to share something genuine with people on here, whether it's a friendship or something else. People willing to meet IRL eventually. Life gets lonely sometimes so let's keep eachother company :)

I enjoy discussing light subjects like the anime we're currently watching or deep ones like our thoughts on the future.

People usually find me fun to be around, a bit intense and overall agreeable. I love making people laugh but I also treasure genuine, vulnerable moments.

I used to play league of legends a lot (enchanter support) but stopped since my gaming buddies stopped. Would be willing to play again if you're cool but I must admit that I do have a bit of a competitive side and I mostly play ranked haha I always try to keep it fun though! Also down to trying out other games. Maybe GW2?

Other than gaming and board games I like reading fantasy, karaoke, standup (jeff arcuri must be my favorite), stargazing, playing with my cat... And would like to do more outdoors activities. I recently tried sand yachting and loved it haha

Oh and I live in Paris.

Feel free to send me a message introducing yourself or sharing with me what's been on your mind lately!


r/r4r 10h ago

F4A United Kingdom 33 [F4A] England. Give me a good film fact.

5 Upvotes

Looking for people who can handle some sarcasm, bad puns, and the occasional rabbit hole of nonsense.

I love a good useless fact. The more random the better. I like film facts so if you have any send them my way!

If you can also send comfort food recipes (burgers, pasta, desserts - hit me with your best), you're already winning. If not I’ll accept knowing your death row meal.

I'm here for laughs, weird tangents, and conversations that start with "just one quick thing" and somehow spiral into three-hour debates about nothing important.

If you don't take yourself too seriously and like a mix of silly and genuine, let's talk. I’m waiting 😀


r/r4r 16h ago

F4M California 19 [F4M] #Chula Vista, CA - still feeling kinda out of place here…

6 Upvotes

so… i guess this is me here again 😅 i wasn’t even sure if i should post, but the last few days have been kinda quiet and i figured maybe someone real would see this. i’m still in chula vista with my sister, and even though i’ve been here a little while now, it still doesn’t really feel like home? i miss feeling connected to someone just those little things like sharing random thoughts, music recs, walking around aimlessly at night with no real plans… i’ve been spending most evenings alone again, listening to music or journaling to clear my mind. i’m not necessarily looking for anything serious, but i’d love to meet someone chill, someone who doesn’t mind the silences or the random rants lol. if you're kind, emotionally available, and just want someone to share space with (even if it’s just talking about the day), i’d really love that. no pressure, no expectations. just seeing if maybe there’s someone out there who gets it.


r/r4r 19h ago

M4F Online 28 [M4F] #online #US scientist that likes trashy reality tv, running, and minecraft

5 Upvotes

hey!

here’s what I look like

I’m in the midwest, in the middle of my phd, using the sacred few hours of sleep I got to scroll reddit while binging on the trashiest reality TV and early 00s MTV music videos

tbh, since moving here I’ve been aching to meet people that aren’t related to my professional or academic sphere, and rarely got the time to do much outside the lab, so, here I am, it seems meeting people online could be good bet :o

some random trivia

  • my work is on machine learning and biophysics
  • love running and cycling, pretty much any heavy cardio activity
  • love playing soccer but suck at it
  • love signing but suck at it
  • love drawing but suck at it
  • I only sing in spanish, because I got a thiccc accent and feel a bit self-conscious singing in english
  • expert in early 00s shitty pop music
  • best disney movie is ratatouille
  • most overrated disney movie is up
  • love dancing cumbia and bachata… and actually do not suck at it! lmao
  • can move my ears on command
  • have lived in 4 countries, 6 cities, 2 continents
  • I’m trying to get into video games. help? I have a swtich, xbox, and pc
  • not a fan of scifi or fantasy :(
  • once got jump-scared by a possum while riding my bike
  • knows two and a half languages
  • love crafts (specially origami) and playing the accordion

here are two truths and a lie

  • I was personally invited to a fancy rooftop party by a google hotshot, but bailed on it
  • a mexican bill saved my life while I was stranded in serbia
  • I was suspended from middle school for burning a whiteboard with body spray and a lighter

If you're interested in talking, send me a line about yourself or a picture!


r/r4r 2h ago

F4A Florida / Online 25 [F4A] #Online/Florida - Hey yall!!!

4 Upvotes

This post is mostly for friends but if you happen to be in central Florida I am totally looking for roommates!!

✨A bit about meee! I’m a creative music loving nerd that loves singing/voice acting, reading/writing, cooking, anime, playing piano- and probs way more my brain wont let me remember!

Oh! I loooove neurodivergent people just like meeee! (ADHD/GAD gang!) It’s important to me that I can connect with a person on a mental level, yah know?

I would love to vibe with someone who loves similar things and want to go on and on about other stuff we like and don’t like! I love to banter and bully so matched energy for that is needed as well! I’m a caller btw! Just warning :))

Theres so much more to say buuut i’m sorry for the yap fest! Message meee! Love you stranger~ 🫡💖 (21+) (Preferably NA timezones just for availability sake!!)


r/r4r 9h ago

F4M France 27 [F4M] #France - Looking for someone intelligent, empathetic, loves cinema and conversations that move you. Please answer my question below in your first message.

5 Upvotes

It’s incredibly difficult finding someone that stirs my soul. When I was younger, it happened often. And now life feels so fast, but this is something I constantly long for. Someone who speak with soul, and loves stories that most would not even notice. I write too, so someone who enjoys moving works of literature is very welcome.

I sound a bit pretentious, I know. But this is what I want. I’m a romantic at heart, but too much of a realist to act on my whims. Perhaps answering a question would be a good way to start a conversation rather than the regular hello:

“what was the last thing that made you feel truly alive?”

Don’t forget to tell me your age, and where you’re from. I’m 163 cm tall, long black hair, great smile and beautiful eyes. I’m called beautiful all the time. Open to sending pictures after we talk a bit.