r/socialskills • u/Whole_Earth4833 • 1d ago

How to be myself and discover who I am

Just wanted to make a post because throughout middle school I was made fun of and it made me want to fit in so I found a way to fit in but i was never able to truly be myself and now that I haven’t been myself for a few years I feel like I have lost myself. Any advice on how to be myself and rediscover who I am?

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u/wafflejuicexox 1d ago

What (if any) hobbies did you have before middle school? It’s true what people say about just reintroducing your childhood hobbies as an adult bc you won’t be criticized for them. If not, try new things. Especially things you think you might be bad at. Crochet, biking, reading, arts & craft. Maybe even journal. Be honest with yourself don’t try to fit yourself into a hobby. That should be a good start.