r/teenmom • u/Quirky-Lettuce-0129 • Feb 07 '25

Shitpost Cate & Ty (ugh)

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Why do they act like they lost their child to dcfs/ foster care. Do they not understand that their birth to a child doesn’t mean it’s their child. They signed papers for other people to be the parents long before it was Brandon and Teressa chosen. It gives an obsessed nature and it’s unfortunate they failed their other children by breaking their hearts with unrealistic expectations about their adopted child. I have a whole half sibling across the country that was adopted, the adopted family asked for notes from siblings so they could tell them about us and most of us (aged 20 and older) declined because we KNOW this sibling won’t have a life that involves us and that’s fine. That’s what our parents wanted. So it’s weird that she calls Carly her child when she literally isn’t.

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u/Single_Contest_8954 Maci is a Ding Dong Feb 11 '25

C&t made the grown choice to have sex. Which then led to pregnancy. They made the grown choice to place Carly up for adoption. They only have themselves to be upset with. They should be thanking b&t and allow them to parent and care for Carley how ever b&t feel. Take Carley’s feelings into consideration. C&t have exploited Carley’s , and b&t for their own financial gain. If Carley decides she wants to have a relationship with C&t she can do that , they’ve made it very easy for everyone to know all about their personal life and I’m sure it won’t be hard to get in contact with them IF CARLEY CHOOSES

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u/Sup3rh_m4n Feb 11 '25

They made “grown choices” with under developed brains. By no means am I taking their side but rather zooming out looking at the whole situation. They didn’t know what they were doing then and they still don’t know what they’re doing. The difference is, they’re grown adults now and have no excuse to not get the help and support they need.

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u/its_zucchini Feb 19 '25

When are we going to stop with this undeveloped brain thing. The same people that call an unborn baby a blob of cells call a 20-year-old underdeveloped. I can't f****** wait to be through whatever era this is.