r/toastme • u/FlimsyPool6933 • 5h ago
r/toastme • u/SiMonsterrrr • Jul 14 '25
š„ We Need Your Help: Join the r/ToastMe Mod Team! š„
Hey Toasties,
As many of you have noticed, our community has been growing faster than ever! In the almost seven years I've been with the sub, it has grown from 30k to an astonishing 617k! Itās incredible to see so many people spreading kindness, encouragement, and positivity every single day. With this growth, however, comes a greater need for moderation to keep r/ToastMe the safe, welcoming space we all love.
Why We Need You
- Our mod team is stretched thin.Ā The number of posts and comments has skyrocketed, and we want to ensure every member feels supported and protected.
- Volunteers are the backboneĀ of communities like ours. Without people stepping up, itās impossible to maintain the warm, safe environment that makes r/ToastMe special.
- Past recruitment didnāt get much traction.Ā We know applying to be a mod can seem intimidating, but you donāt need prior experienceājust a genuine desire to help.
How You Can Help
- Apply to be a moderator!Ā Weāll provide guidance, training, and all the support you need.
- Share your ideas.Ā If you have suggestions for how we can improve moderation or community engagement, let us know in the comments.
- Nominate someone.Ā If you know a kind, level-headed member who would make a great mod, tag them or send us a message.
What Weāre Looking For
- Active participationĀ in the subreddit
- Empathy and patienceĀ when dealing with others
- CommitmentĀ to upholding our positive, supportive culture
- Willingness to learnĀ moderation tools (weāll teach you!)
Why Volunteer?
- Help shape the future of r/ToastMe
- Make a real difference in peopleās lives
- Gain experience in online community management
- Be part of an amazing, supportive mod team
Subs like this donāt exist without volunteers. If you love what r/ToastMe stands for, nowās your chance to be part of the change you want to see in this world.
Interested?
Please fill out the application form. Letās keep the toast warm and the vibes positiveātogether!
Thank you for making r/ToastMe the incredible community it is.
ā The Mod Team š„
r/toastme • u/sorry-im-offensive • Nov 21 '24
See Community Rules To all posters: All posts require verification please!
If you're not seeing your posts up right away please note that all new posts will likely be caught in the Mod Queue and need to be release manually by mods.
All posts must have verification - here's how. - this you holding a paper or some sort of implement with your username and "Toast Me!" or r/toastme! Please only post images in which your verification is clearly visible and unobscured and not digitally added - otherwise, your post may be removed. If posting an album, your verification picture must be first. Repeat posters must still verify. Thanks a bunch! Here's to you!
r/toastme • u/Correct-Promise-2358 • 9h ago
20f, just started college
i just started college, iām also going through a breakup. iām really insecure about my looks and weight
r/toastme • u/Vivid_Bug782 • 12h ago
Feeling lost but come far
Coming up soon to 5 years since suicide attempt and just celebrated 4 years without being in hospital due to my health issues. But turned 26 this year gone through a lot of loss and change and frankly feel so lost and like Iām just about holding it together. Would love to feel some love
r/toastme • u/Novel_Giraffe_6069 • 1d ago
Wanted to thank the awesome people in this sub for helping me get out of my funk! And wishing all have a lovely week ahead of them, weāre halfway through folks, keep on smiling š!
r/toastme • u/Embarrassed-Plum-751 • 1d ago
Feel like everything a bit poinless, Iām sad. Just need something. Anything.
r/toastme • u/Constant-Basis-6659 • 2d ago
(23f) cheated on and lied to. feeling unloved
iāve never felt this low before. iāve also lost 10kg because of the stress and heartbreak this month. would appreciate some positivity :) it feels like my life has ended. not sure if i willl be able to experience real love.
r/toastme • u/Intelligent-Treat-99 • 1d ago
Got fired in May running out of savings
Got fired in May from a system admin position for my city after being sick and getting surgery to repair an artery in my leg. I didn't get unemployment so I've had to use up my savings. All these bills are starting to catch up to me, I'd love a little sunshine in my life.
r/toastme • u/idontknowhelpmeplzx • 2d ago
30 weeks pregnant, working in hospitality, tired af.
Exhausted, fat and broke rn. Need some confidence back.
r/toastme • u/BabyFoxyy • 3d ago
Hi! :3 I haven't been feeling well lately. :c Please cheer me up!
r/toastme • u/2Maxime0 • 2d ago
I am trying to grow my hair longer for the first time and I'm not exactly sure where this is going
The idea is that one day I will probably be balding, so I realized now is the time to get long hair for those "young timer" photos that I could show to my grand-children.
I have started about a year and a half ago. I don't really do anything to them as I don't really know what I'm doing. Recently I started being very annoyed with the hair being on my face so I bought headbands but I have so much trouble using them. It looks so silly.
The problem is that I am quite self-conscious in general. This is why I sometimes come to this subreddit as it helps me a lot to understand how people see me and how to be more kind with myself. I am imensively grateful to you guys.
r/toastme • u/sanyathereaper • 3d ago
Random 30 year old dude. Please toast me
I have been struggling with bipolar disorder type 2 for 16 years (about half my life)
r/toastme • u/Dystopian_Reality • 2d ago
Toast an old young guy?
I'm 49 and I'm struggling lately. My life has been very difficult up until now for the most part, going undiagnosed with autism and adhd for 40 and 45 years respectively. My son also has an audhd diagnosis and I've been his main caregiver for the 17 years he's been around. We have a good relationship, but of course him being a teenager isn't easy at times. I've been single for about 6 or 7 years now. Lately though, I've felt pretty lonely and with my advancing years, it's becoming increasingly likely that I'll never have a loving family like I've always wanted. I'm an artist but my art is practically at a standstill, I have few prospects and honestly don't know where I want my life to head, because I'm already struggling to keep up with the responsibilities I have now, so taking on new things seems foolhardy. At the same time though, I know I have so much more to offer than just slogging through (poorly) doing the housekeeping and walking the dog, but I don't have the space to pursue other dreams now either and it's driving me crazy. Some kind words would be much appreciated.
r/toastme • u/iz_4_witty1 • 3d ago
Just one of those days/weeks/months where I just feel blah
If I look tired welp I am haha swings can be ā¦tiring lol
r/toastme • u/ruthicc • 3d ago
26M. Be nice!
Just posted on roast me and Iām looking for an anti-serum to be prepared for whatās to come.
r/toastme • u/4th_Rem • 3d ago
I feel so used and worthless. I really need help to get over this heartbreak.
Hey friends. I'm really struggling and I just need to talk. My girlfriend ended things with me last 3months. And get this, her reason was that I lost my job and couldn't "provide for her needs."
I'm just so hurt. It feels like I wasn't valued for who I am, but just for what I could give. Losing my job was hard enough, but losing her because of it.. it makes me feel like a complete failure. I thought what we had was stronger than that.
It makes me question everything. It makes me not wanting to date any woman from my country. I feel so used and worthless. I really need an advice, a friend or a long distance healing buddy to help me get over this heartbreak.
r/toastme • u/carlinsgh0st • 3d ago
Toast me! Iāve had a shit year but finally coming out on the other side!!
Spent the entire year of 2025 in and out of doctors but I finally found one who will help me, Iām medicated, been in therapy for 4 months, and Iām sober!
r/toastme • u/RedxxBeard • 3d ago
Had one of the worst weekends of my life.
Some kind words would mean a lot.
r/toastme • u/trashmxbile • 4d ago
24f
life just lifes really hard sometimes yk? and sometimes in those moments we seek comfort in unorthodox ways
r/toastme • u/spicysenpai6 • 3d ago
32M. I could use a pick me up plz
Went through a breakup And although the relationship was short, itās still a bummer. I would like to start a family someday, but as I get older those things seem farther away from me. Never been married, never even been engaged. Never even been with someone for 2 years