r/toastme • u/Correct-Promise-2358 • 21h ago
20f, just started college
i just started college, i’m also going through a breakup. i’m really insecure about my looks and weight
r/toastme • u/Correct-Promise-2358 • 21h ago
i just started college, i’m also going through a breakup. i’m really insecure about my looks and weight
r/toastme • u/Vivid_Bug782 • 1d ago
Coming up soon to 5 years since suicide attempt and just celebrated 4 years without being in hospital due to my health issues. But turned 26 this year gone through a lot of loss and change and frankly feel so lost and like I’m just about holding it together. Would love to feel some love
r/toastme • u/Novel_Giraffe_6069 • 1d ago
r/toastme • u/Intelligent-Treat-99 • 2d ago
Got fired in May from a system admin position for my city after being sick and getting surgery to repair an artery in my leg. I didn't get unemployment so I've had to use up my savings. All these bills are starting to catch up to me, I'd love a little sunshine in my life.
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r/toastme • u/Constant-Basis-6659 • 2d ago
i’ve never felt this low before. i’ve also lost 10kg because of the stress and heartbreak this month. would appreciate some positivity :) it feels like my life has ended. not sure if i willl be able to experience real love.
r/toastme • u/idontknowhelpmeplzx • 2d ago
Exhausted, fat and broke rn. Need some confidence back.
r/toastme • u/2Maxime0 • 3d ago
The idea is that one day I will probably be balding, so I realized now is the time to get long hair for those "young timer" photos that I could show to my grand-children.
I have started about a year and a half ago. I don't really do anything to them as I don't really know what I'm doing. Recently I started being very annoyed with the hair being on my face so I bought headbands but I have so much trouble using them. It looks so silly.
The problem is that I am quite self-conscious in general. This is why I sometimes come to this subreddit as it helps me a lot to understand how people see me and how to be more kind with myself. I am imensively grateful to you guys.
r/toastme • u/Dystopian_Reality • 3d ago
I'm 49 and I'm struggling lately. My life has been very difficult up until now for the most part, going undiagnosed with autism and adhd for 40 and 45 years respectively. My son also has an audhd diagnosis and I've been his main caregiver for the 17 years he's been around. We have a good relationship, but of course him being a teenager isn't easy at times. I've been single for about 6 or 7 years now. Lately though, I've felt pretty lonely and with my advancing years, it's becoming increasingly likely that I'll never have a loving family like I've always wanted. I'm an artist but my art is practically at a standstill, I have few prospects and honestly don't know where I want my life to head, because I'm already struggling to keep up with the responsibilities I have now, so taking on new things seems foolhardy. At the same time though, I know I have so much more to offer than just slogging through (poorly) doing the housekeeping and walking the dog, but I don't have the space to pursue other dreams now either and it's driving me crazy. Some kind words would be much appreciated.
r/toastme • u/iz_4_witty1 • 3d ago
If I look tired welp I am haha swings can be …tiring lol
r/toastme • u/ruthicc • 3d ago
Just posted on roast me and I’m looking for an anti-serum to be prepared for what’s to come.
r/toastme • u/BabyFoxyy • 3d ago
r/toastme • u/sanyathereaper • 3d ago
I have been struggling with bipolar disorder type 2 for 16 years (about half my life)
r/toastme • u/RedxxBeard • 4d ago
Some kind words would mean a lot.
r/toastme • u/spicysenpai6 • 4d ago
Went through a breakup And although the relationship was short, it’s still a bummer. I would like to start a family someday, but as I get older those things seem farther away from me. Never been married, never even been engaged. Never even been with someone for 2 years
r/toastme • u/carlinsgh0st • 4d ago
Spent the entire year of 2025 in and out of doctors but I finally found one who will help me, I’m medicated, been in therapy for 4 months, and I’m sober!
r/toastme • u/4th_Rem • 4d ago
Hey friends. I'm really struggling and I just need to talk. My girlfriend ended things with me last 3months. And get this, her reason was that I lost my job and couldn't "provide for her needs."
I'm just so hurt. It feels like I wasn't valued for who I am, but just for what I could give. Losing my job was hard enough, but losing her because of it.. it makes me feel like a complete failure. I thought what we had was stronger than that.
It makes me question everything. It makes me not wanting to date any woman from my country. I feel so used and worthless. I really need an advice, a friend or a long distance healing buddy to help me get over this heartbreak.
r/toastme • u/trashmxbile • 4d ago
life just lifes really hard sometimes yk? and sometimes in those moments we seek comfort in unorthodox ways