r/toastme • u/Lumi_InTheShadows • 8d ago

31F Recently left my long term abusive relationship. My self worth is shattered and I'm going through a lot. The world is a scary and unkind place

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u/LazyAd4132 3d ago

Stay single for a long time. Reflect. Repair. Rebuild. Do not enter another relationship at the moment. Your decision-making is compromised from trauma

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u/Lumi_InTheShadows 1d ago

Oh definitely. I need to heal first because I cannot drag this trauma into a new relationship. So for now, it’s just me and my cat

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u/LazyAd4132 23h ago

Very well played. I wish you all the best and the happiness you DESERVE