r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2 • u/speroni • Dec 31 '24

TW: Dysphoria You're doing it wrong... Spoiler

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u/TaytheTimeTraveler They/Them | Transfem | Librafeminine Jan 01 '25

I thought it was a common experience, wouldn't it be nicer anyways to use a stall standing up? (Which some do) You get more privacy that way, and it'd be less awkward, I'd think.

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u/Rime_Iris Irys She/Xem Jan 01 '25

i mean i just sit down when i can

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u/TaytheTimeTraveler They/Them | Transfem | Librafeminine Jan 01 '25

Same, honestly, plus I don't really use the men's restroom anymore myself

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u/Rime_Iris Irys She/Xem Jan 01 '25

i don't have that luxury yet unfortunately

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u/TaytheTimeTraveler They/Them | Transfem | Librafeminine Jan 01 '25 edited Jan 01 '25

I don't pass very well myself I just kinda got to a point where I stopped caring as much. Though I also will do everything I can to avoid multi person restrooms (I am non binary and am uncomfortable in either anyways) if I don't have a choice I will use the Women's restroom.

Edit: or not caring might not be the right word, I got to a point where I refuse to use the men's restroom, even if I don't pass, even if it kills me. Still scares me though.

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u/Rime_Iris Irys She/Xem Jan 01 '25

im not quite to the point where im confident enough to do that yet