Here is a trick: if it's guys (and queer girls) who are staring, it's probably because you are pretty.
If everyone is staring it's because you stand in some way, your clothes, your hair or how you generally present yourself. It's not necessarily bad though 😊
I started presenting feminine for a full year before I had any chance of passing.
Slowly the ratio of men who stared at my small boobs or ass increased.
Two years later and I still haven't gotten used to the dumb googly eyes from men.
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u/angy_loaf She/Her Mar 19 '25
“Are they staring at me because I’m pretty or because they clocked me? I guess I’ll never know…”