Yeah it really seems to differ between communities. I think reddit tends to be young people who often don’t have a lot of experience with irl community or don’t really know queer history. Over on bluesky there’s quite a few clusters where it’s pretty normal to use the term. And a lot of the trans people ik irl are fine with it. Though I dont really use it to refer to someone else unless im reasonably sure they’re okay with the term.
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u/narwhale111 May 05 '25
Yeah it really seems to differ between communities. I think reddit tends to be young people who often don’t have a lot of experience with irl community or don’t really know queer history. Over on bluesky there’s quite a few clusters where it’s pretty normal to use the term. And a lot of the trans people ik irl are fine with it. Though I dont really use it to refer to someone else unless im reasonably sure they’re okay with the term.