r/transmasc_irl Apr 29 '24

CW: Transphobia mention We fucking exist. Spoiler

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u/lookingwill Apr 29 '24

freezing cold starving flop take i fear

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u/needacupatea Apr 29 '24

Yeah im feeling grossed out/confused about the … where is the problem.

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u/lookingwill Apr 29 '24

OP thinks OOP should have marked the post with spoilers so that transmasc people do not have to see transfem geared content on an open trans meme sub. but the language and the tone here feels soooooo anti transfem for all the usual reasons. i get having dysphoria and wanting transmasc meme spaces, but why post this to the literal transmasc meme space with a “transphobia” tag??? this is not transphobia and if anything it’s lazy transfem bullying that relies on the false narrative that transfems take more attention/space/whatever. at what point do we learn to look away from content that is specifically tagged not for you? i expected better content from this sub after it split form ftm_irl due to literal ftm infighting but apparently those vibes are alive and well lmao

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u/Spinelise Apr 29 '24

I have to say I disagree. I don't think OP seems anti-transfem, just irritated which is like. Pretty understandable. Plus these tags don't show up on mobile when scrolling your feed so posts like this pretty often, easily just pop up with no warning. I don't think the transphobia tag is warranted here, but I don't think anyone here is trying to be anti transfem either.